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Sharing this because it shows a commonality in the dating market, having a trait that makes you undesirable to many even though if they are attracted to your looks and or character.
The guy on this show, "Pop The Balloon Or Find Love" was as interested in the woman as she was him, that is until he found out she had five kids. You can see the disappointment on her face when she said, "I knew it". She was reluctant to let him know she had five kids because she knew it would run her off.
Almost like when women ask you that dreaded, "How tall are you" question online after a really good conversation. You know what's coming next.
You can find the Instagram video here.
Complete foolery. The man at least has a prenup. They have a kid together, but I won't be surprised if she's playing the long game. And Murphy is 63, not 70 (thought it doesn't make much of a difference, it's a 19 year age gap).
For this thread, I'm talking about black women who date and interact with black men. I'm not talking so much about other men's experience with black women. And on that note, there seems to be a double standard which I will get to later.
If you browse threads on websites like Lipstick Alley and Nairaland (I chose those two sites deliberately), you can see a very callous and vitriolic view of anything that discusses the idea of shorter guys and romance. And I mean, the responses are usually very nasty.
Now, no one likes to be stereotyped, and I'm not creating this thread to purposely create division or talk horribly about black women, but this is an honest question.
Are black women and by extension is black culture more heightist and hostile to shorter men than others?
In my opinion, this is a woman's nightmare on a dating show or dating app. He holds all of the cards.
How do we know this? Though many of women there couldn't stand him and popped their balloons, many of them continued to go back and forth with him because they felt they need to prove something.
If Dr. Elom were a foot shorter, never mind that they would've popped the balloons the moment he walked on; they would've dismissed everything and anything he had to say. If you want to argue this, look at the way the different groups of women treat pretty much any short contestant.