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ThatFlyShortGuy

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Height: 5'7

Location: Queens, NYC, United States

Joined: Apr 16, 2014

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Re: Anyone here exclusively interested in taller women?

I'm not as short as the OP, but I definitely wouldn't limit myself to certain heights especially being a short guy.

Topic: Anyone here exclusively interested in taller women?

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Re: Anyone here exclusively interested in taller women?

Exclusively, no. I take them as they come. If I find someone attractive, I'll approach. I assume off the bat that a woman taller me won't reciprocate, but I don't let that taint my approach.

I've dated tall women and short women. For me, it's more about how THEY feel about dating a short guy.

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Re: Why can't I date a taller woman?

> evilbaga wrote: >

I reject this completely. One can easily live without a woman... lots do. Lots of tall people as well ... its called MGTOW.

A woman has to be interested in me over other men to start. Without that, I will not approach, its a two way street. The problem is, when they ARE... that I freeze up.

This could be why might have issues. I get feeling a bit more confident when a woman approaches you or shows interest, but there is no way to realistically detemine that she is interested in you over other men. She could tell you that, and show you that, but still be lying. Come on, even an avverage woman is going to have tons of men approaching her. That's nature. You have to show her why you should be her choice. This changes if a woman is disrepsecting you. For example, a friend of mine had a woman take interest in him after he approached. However, she stood him up three times. Obviously, he is wrong for taking her seriously after being stood up once.

I take it that other guys were probably talking to her and she didn't take my friend seriously as a result. But they were talking on the phone every day. No one is talking about whether you could live without a woman or not. This topic was "Why can't I date a taller woman". Especially being a shorter guy, it would be intelligent to assume that she is going to have men of all heights approaching her (especially if she is an average height woman herself, which you mentioned).

If they are interested like you said, then my advice applies. Your should be on your A game. Your charm and game face should be impervious. Most importaly, you should be yourself (sounds cliche), but you are unique and she should be interested in you. Otherwise, forget it and move on to the next one. You have no time to waste (unless you want to waste your time).

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Re: Why can't I date a taller woman?

Brother, you need to get that idea out of your head! You will face rejection at your height more so than other guys because of rampant heightism, which we all believe influences dating choices heavily, but you're going to have to think like Boris (who we all believe is around 5').

Your style is going to have to be on 10, along with your charm and your game face has to be impervious. You're about 5'2 which is Prince, Kevin Hart range. Use this to your advantage (e.g. fun fact during conversation). But be sure your grooming is on point. I'm not going to give you the confidence mumbo jumbo, but really look into your experiences to learn dos and dont's.

Most importantly, expect rejection, and walk in with the attitude that you don't care what happens.