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Or you're just projecting your own failures or perception on "how things work" onto others. You have several men here telling you that they've had successes and have confidence while acknowledging their own losses.
How many rejections should a man take? Dealing with rejection is part of being a man. Some of us have to deal with it more than others. That's life
there are many, many men in the same position as i am. perhaps the men here who have had success are also facially attractive and have a full head of hair. just being shorter than average makes things much more difficult but also being bald & below average looking almost always equates to game over in the dating world regardless of a mans confidence or mindset.
dealing with rejection is one thing but experiencing only complete & total rejection over almost a decade is a very strong indication that i lack the inherent physical characteristics required to compete in the modern dating market.
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I'm glad I just go out and live my life and don't let statistics limit me. Someone with a weaker mind would let this deter them rather than going out trying and failing until they succeed. Everyone isn't lucky in life, but the smartest dude with less luck than others won't let that limit him.
perhaps it is the men who are delusional about success eventually being a guarantee for anyone who are the one's with the "weaker minds"? if intelligence was such a large factor in dating success then there would be FAR fewer very smart, physically unattractive single men then there currently are. how many complete rejections should a man get before giving up & trying to accept that he is simply not good enough due to his inferior genetics?
i'm glad things have worked out for you but along with the just world fallacy, you should consider another common error in thinking know as survivorship bias- i.e. "We are tempted to think success is due to particular characteristics which can be emulated. Just remember that, sometimes, success can also come down to luck."
Informative video discussing how the physical attributes beyond a mans control (with his height being the primary factor) are by far the most critical factors in what women find attractive in men. However it's a red-pill grift to suggest that somehow non-physical qualities can make up for lacking quality physical attributes.
exactly-it's all about the genes and a mans height is the primary diver of female attraction. this guy could be a giant douchebag and would still have a plethora of attractive women thirsting after him-just look at Jeremy Meeks as a prime example of this.
in all but a very few, extremely rare cases, the combination of a mans height & facial quality determine his destiny when it comes to his success with women. meanwhile, men who are not in the top 20% of attractiveness greatly struggle to even find a single women who is interested in them and it's game over for those of us in the bottom 30% due to being short, bald & facially unfortunate. just as winning at the genetic lottery is the best possible blessing, losing it is the worst possible curse.