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A lot of people don't talk about this. In my opinion, this works only if both parties are privy to it.
Make no mistake, some guys know that a woman in a situation like this has limited options.
I have a friend who was in a similar situation. The woman had a job with low pay and her and the ex were struggling to make ends meet.
The woman and the ex had an arrangement.
Her feelings got in the way and she saw a "relationship".
My friend on the other hand played the quasi-boyfriend, but knew he was getting consistent play.
100% she would leave the guy if her situation improved. She's temporarily settling because of circumstance.
Quite nice that he's decided to share his story with the world and be fully transparent.
I personally couldn't subject my body to that, but he knew what he wanted and went for it.
Many people don't have the guts to see it through all the way like he has.
Tough read. Even if said woman is actually interested in you, it's still for reasons of utility (in this case, a chance for her daughters to not be overly tall) and she still has to rationalize things to want to deal with you.
Brutal...
What is the point of getting married? Putting everything on the line just to have the person you love and adore have this in the back of her mind.... for twenty years!