First and foremost let me excuse for my english, since its not my native language...
With that being said, i have something that have been bugging me for a very long time,
and i would like to hear your opinion on the subject.
This is mostly dating related. But one thing that i find unfair is the peoples ability to forgive and forget.
We've all made bad choices in life, however some are worse than others.
When we go out to meet another girl, we slowly get to know her,
usually it doesnt take long before her unattractive stories from the past starts emerging.
Which is usually a bad choice that she's made. Could be that she's been sleeping with far to many,
or taking to many party drugs, maybe hanging with the wrong crew,
been in to many shortterm relationships or what ever.
Could be anything that is against what you stand for.
People tend to overlook these facts and just comment "that's in the past, it doesnt matter".
Were as I, if i had a say would say that i mattered. You are but just a reflection of your past,
it defines you. It tells the story why you are the way you are today.
A past forms and molds you. If i hear someones past, i can correctly guess the persons behavior.
If someone told me the few examples i just gave, i would come as no suprise that,
that person would be still living on the edge of the legal society,
still smoking weed once i a while (which is illegal in my country),
party a little to often, and have a friend and aquaintances circle that is no good.
And in general living as that pearson was 5-10 years younger than what she actually is.
For me there is a socially hierarchy, people that have been living on the outskirts are on the bottom.
You are master of your own choices, and saying "i was young and stupid, but that made me smarter" is just a stupid excuse for being an idiot the start with.
Past doesnt necessarily make you stronger.
What is the reason to make the right choices in life, sacrificing parts of your freedom, and doing what you think is right in any given sitation, even if you wanted take the easier and wrong choice
If you're just gonna end up in the same pool as everybody else, in the end?
For me past is important, and I think i have the right to judge someone by it.
Someone who've wronged life, should not have the same socially privileges as someone who've done it right.
Last Edited By multinational (2018-02-26 11:17:32)
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