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That's because there are plenty of short men who are comfortable with themselves. What I did say though is that if there were some "magic pill" that could make me taller, 6'5 is not the height that I would pick.
the problem is that it does not matter what a man thinks of himself-what matters is what others think of him so in the case of dating it's only what the women he is attracted to think about him that is important. a man who is very comfortable with himself, has high self esteem and confidence will still have no success unless he passes the looks test. meanwhile, a tall, good looking man can be self loathing yet have a plethora of women after him.
i agree that 6'5 is pretty tall but i would take it over my 5'6 in a second and never look back. i have lost count of the # of average at best looking but very tall guys i see that have attractive partners due to their extreme height. in my experience, asian & black women seem especially prone to value a mans height over all else.
these women are virtual signalling-if you want to know what they really think, look at the men they have dated in the past. the true disconnect is that while it is socially acceptable to mock short men who have no control over their height, it is strictly taboo to even comment about an overweight women's physique. KR also acknowledges that 97% or women greatly prefer taller men which many people on this board are in denial of.
the fact that Becky is in a relationship while Lee is single tells you everything you need to know about this. as long as a tall women is thin & fit (like Becky) she will be considered feminine & attractive. meanwhile. a mans masculinity is based on his height. of course, Lee is not helping himself by being out of shape. being ripped would not help him with dating but it would improve other areas of his life.
i don't understand the men here who claim that they would not want to be 6'5 instead of their current height. it would be like claiming you don't want to win the powerball lottery because then you would owe all of the taxes.
it is pretty much certain that living even a week as a tall man would result in an astounding difference in how i was treated by both men & women as i can't think of anything which would improve my own quality of life as much as being taller &/or more physically attractive.