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YOU ON THE OTHER HAND..... YOUR POOL OF DATING WILL BE SMALLER BECAUSE YOU INSIST ON RESTRICTING YOURSELF TO AN EVEN SMALLER SEGMENT OF WOMEN KNOWING YOU ARE SHORT TO BEGIN WITH.
The way you think and behave is absolutely bizarre. The entitlement is off the charts.
So in other words, what you are saying is basically, I must accept anything that's available and lower my standards because I'm short?
And that I should be happy with that?
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If you don't find women in that 4'11-5'2 range attractive, whose problem is that? Not mine!
Haha. Dude did I ever say that it's your problem? Sorry, but I like what I like.
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My dating pool isn't small because I am open to dating women of all heights. It may be in theory smaller than that of a man who is 6'2, but I am never short of dates, so I wouldn't know. I don't care about studies, just what I experience in my daily life.
So translation: "My dating pool isn't small because I am willing to take whatever that's available, not because I prefer them, but because I don't have a choice due to my height."
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You say that this forum exists because short men are "isolated" from the rest of society and this forum was created because being short is "bad". But that is not the tag line of the forum and the whole site is branded on the complete opposite of "short = bad".
Yes, I completely understand that you people are just trying to be positive. But I like said, there's a difference between being positive and delusional ignorant.
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If this forum "only existed" because short men are "isolated", then why are there tall guy forums?
https://tallmenchat.com/index.php
https://www.tallfriends.com/forums
https://www.thetallstreetjournal.com/forum/categories/tall-clothes/listForCategory
You should have included r/tall also. There are also real negatives effects of being extremely tall also like 6'6" and above. Especially if you are a woman and as tall as 6'1" more, that could be a serious problem too.
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I don't think that anyone on this forum, even the "positive people" here won't say something like, "it's better to be short than tall".
Really?
Take a look at this one for instance: http://shortkingz.com/topic/how-much-would-you-pay-to-grow-taller-1438#p5465
His exact words "Why would you "need" to be taller?" He's literally discouraging people from being taller (even if there was a safe way to do so). And then he gave all these non-sense laughable reasons of why being tall is bad:
"See, and if these people did grow taller, they'd be more of a target for divorce, rape accusations, alimony, child support and they'd be miserable like many of my taller friends who had options galore when it came to women."
So you are incorrect to say that people on this forum won't think that way. And this is exactly the kind of post that annoys me.
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Originally posted by guitarhero
They, like I know that short isn't the "ideal", but that doesn't meant that you are relegated to some life of doom as you make it out to be.
Like many of the other posters here, I've had girlfriends, I have hook-ups, went to college, have a great job, etc.
I think you take the studies you read too seriously to the point where you believe those determine your fate or something and if you get out and live, life isn't really like that.
If you were 4'11 or something, then I could understand the doom and gloom, but you're 5'6. Come on man....
And what exactly are you referring to by this 'doom'?
I never said you couldn't go to college because you're short.
I never said you couldn't make money because you're short.
I never said you couldn't get married and start a family because you're short.
I said that short men in general are not seen as sexually desirable like tall men, which is not wrong.
Again, this depends on how short you are.
There is a point where you're just too short to be found sexually attractive by pretty much any woman.
There is a point where you're too short for some women, but still acceptable for other women.
I'm not trying to underestimating your achievement.
But to fair, I don't know these girlfriends/hook-ups you got.
I don't know how many of them. How they look like. What's their heights. What's their motivations. Whether they're truly sexually attracted to you or did you give them anything else at all in return.
I don't need the answers, but you get my point.
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The only thing I won't be able to do is join the NBA, but then again, there are short players who had to be really really good to get in, so even that is a possibility.
Not exactly. There are professions that require certain height too.
Take this one for an example: https://www.thesegoldwings.com/height-flight-attendant/
So again, I'm sorry to say that it's incorrect to say that NBA is the only thing you can't do because of your height.
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This is a good question. To be honest, I'm really annoyed by these positive cultists who do nothing but spread useless platitudes like:
- "It's perfectly ok to be short" (If it was then this forum wouldn't have existed in the first place, wouldn't you say? Clearly you most likely would need to have some issues with it to even end up here like the user Suarez223 who has confessed that he's been underestimated because of his height)
Isn't this disingenuous though? There are tens of thousands of forums on different topic and in different niches all over the web. Why do any of them exist? Not every forum exists because people are unhappy to talk about something. In most cases, it's because the people who participate on it have something in common and look for like minded or similarly situated people to discuss.
Why do Honda forums exist? Because there are people who drive Hondas and those who join such a forum would discuss Honda automobiles. They enjoy the product and would like to talk to other people who have them or are experts on the subject.
I've visited r/short before. What this place does not have in common with r/short is the influence of brigaders and trollers. That's why I prefer this place. At least here, we stay on topic.
We're not talking about a forum of a product here. We're talking about 'a community for short men'. In other words, short men are isolated from the idea of "normal men".
Sure, maybe not all of you are unhappy, but seeing some of the posts here:
http://shortkingz.com/topic/wemen-actually-turning-away-on-street-1420
http://shortkingz.com/topic/so-youre-mgtow-is-that-really-by-choice-1421
http://shortkingz.com/topic/anyone-feel-cheated-by-genetics-1413
It's safe to conclude that some of these guys are here because they are unhappy with their life.
Anyway, my original point is that it's wrong to say "being short is perfectly ok/good".
Even if you and some other short guys are perfectly happy with their life, that doesn't make it okay to be short.
Maybe they like to be at a disadvantage. Maybe they like to be unattractive. That's not to say that others want to be the same.
Someone might be happy to be desired by a single woman out of millions women despite seen as repulsive by the rest. But others might be not.
I can provide you with all the facts, studies and statistics (just like the ones I posted in this thread and other threads) showing that being short is not okay.
But I don't believe it's necessary, because we all know the truth at this point.
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The problem with your argument is that you're making this too black and white. You're ignoring the good amount of women who don't care if you're short as long as you're taller than them.
I don't know what race you are. But first of all, 5'7" in general isn't super short. You aren't in the same boat as guys 5'5" and under.
And it's pretty much black and white that women don't like short men. I'll explain why.
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I am not going to act as if there isn't a good amount of really short women who would rather be with an average or tall man, but even at my short height, there are a bunch of 4'11s - 5'2s who are okay with me being short.
Here you say they are okay with you being 5'7". Meaning they don't particularly love the fact that you are 5'7" but they tolerate you being 5'7" and that's a big different. They still consider it at least as a kind of a turn-off.
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The problem with your argument is that you're making this too black and white. You're ignoring the good amount of women who don't care if you're short as long as you're taller than them.
Secondly, that sounds like a lose to me. Because of your height, your dating pool only consists of women shorter than 5'7" (here you're talking about filtering out probably half of western women population) while a 5'11" man's dating pool consist of pretty much all women.
And in your specific examples, you particularly highlight women 4'11"-5'2". In my opinion that's not attractive female heights to begin with. Personally, I'm more into taller women.
But my preference doesn't matter that much. The point is that if the size of your dating pool has to shrink just because of your height, it's not good.