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What's up Short Kingz! I love that a site like this exists. It's so thorough.
I'm from NYC. I do not struggle with dating per se, though I also don't claim that I am some mega chad or have some huge ego.
I'm here to talk mainly clothes, and the occasional heightism that I experience.
Look forward to being a part of this board.
Welcome to the board! There are a lot of New Yorkers in here!
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perhaps it is the men who are delusional about success eventually being a guarantee for anyone who are the one's with the "weaker minds"? if intelligence was such a large factor in dating success then there would be FAR fewer very smart, physically unattractive single men then there currently are. how many complete rejections should a man get before giving up & trying to accept that he is simply not good enough due to his inferior genetics?
i'm glad things have worked out for you but along with the just world fallacy, you should consider another common error in thinking know as survivorship bias- i.e. "We are tempted to think success is due to particular characteristics which can be emulated. Just remember that, sometimes, success can also come down to luck."
Or you're just projecting your own failures or perception on "how things work" onto others. You have several men here telling you that they've had successes and have confidence while acknowledging their own losses.
How many rejections should a man take? Dealing with rejection is part of being a man. Some of us have to deal with it more than others. That's life
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ok-maybe not every single time but perhaps 99 times out of 100. studies show that a mans height is a neutral factor for attraction when he is 5'10 and that anything under the average is a negative while anything over is a positive. all things being equal, women will almost always choose a taller man over a man of below average height & even older women greatly prefer taller men to men who are vertically challenged.
I'm glad I just go out and live my life and don't let statistics limit me. Someone with a weaker mind would let this deter them rather than going out trying and failing until they succeed. Everyone isn't lucky in life, but the smartest dude with less luck than others won't let that limit him.