Re: Does it get better in your 30s?
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I feel your pain, but if it's a 40 year old gal, and you have never met her until just 4 weeks ago, there is no way to know if she would have rejected you as a 22 year old college student. People change. I mean, think of the 45 year old Dad of three daughters who slept with a ton of women in his late teens and twenties. When he looks at his daughters and his adoring wife, he probably feels an enormous amount of shame for what he did.....using girls for the sole purpose of sex and not giving a dang about it. People just do a lot of dumb things and hold a lot of dumb belief systems when they are young. Have faith....people grow out it. Not all the time.
Unless they are incredibly beautiful and young looking for their age and possess a cougar personality, women from their 40's onward are totally stupid to reject men because they are short. They simply don't have the choices they did when they were a 22 year old college student in a string bikini at Lake Havasu. Their boobs and buns are sagging, they wrinkle, they start to lose the ability to have kids......males at 40 onward have so much more optionality. They can still get women pregnant easily. They are attractive to a much larger age of people of the opposite gender. The average 40+ woman who turns down short men is really limiting her options.
Last Edited By greenbook (2017-05-11 13:42:29)