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I am a woman and I get why men say they don't like dating bigger women. I am not s stick or anything but I wouldn't want to date a fat man. The thing that bugs me is what this meme is getting across. Women refuse to date short guys but those same women will get mad if a guy says he doesn't want to date a woman who is "bigger" or "out of shape". This is something that actually bothers me because I see both aspects and get why. Why do some women say things like this and react differently when it effects them directly? 

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Social conditioning. Many people like to point their fingers to biology, but there is evidence everywhere that this is not the case.

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^ So you are saying that we have all been conditioned to think a certain way based on what we view/hear?

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I think a lot of societies problems some from judging people on appearance. Good thing God is nothing like us or we'd all be screwed. lol

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People always like to place their own insecurities on people. I ignore comments like this most of the time. I wouldn't want to be with a woman like that anyway.

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^ So you are saying that we have all been conditioned to think a certain way based on what we view/hear?

 

I think this is the case with a lot of people, specially younger kids who grow up in front of a  TV 

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Originally posted by 2B Frank

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Originally posted by Spider I think a lot of societies problems some from judging people on appearance. Good thing God is nothing like us or we'd all be screwed. lol

 

Pretty much the whole world does this other then children. Like very young children who don't know what judging a person based on appearance is yet. 

 

I bet if parents stopped judging others or things, ect, in front of their kids, they would not grow up to be so judging. I mean we set examples for our kids and that is why kids grow to become their parents or the complete opposite. 

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Originally posted by SharkApple

 

I am a woman and I get why men say they don't like dating bigger women. I am not s stick or anything but I wouldn't want to date a fat man. The thing that bugs me is what this meme is getting across. Women refuse to date short guys but those same women will get mad if a guy says he doesn't want to date a woman who is "bigger" or "out of shape". This is something that actually bothers me because I see both aspects and get why. Why do some women say things like this and react differently when it effects them directly? 

 I think that there are women who don't care enough, who care too much, and a perfect mixture or medium. This is a case of caring too dang much.

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^ Yeah what Bonez said. Some women don't care enough and let everyone, specially men, walk all over them. Then you have the ones who care too much, like the feminists. 

Last Edited By Spider (2015-04-30 18:24:52)

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Originally posted by Spider

^ Yeah what Bonez said. Some women don't care enough and let everyone, specially men, walk all over them. Then you have the ones who care too much, like the feminists. 

 There is a lot of truth to this but at the end of the day everyone has a preference and we have to respect that, even if it hurts. 

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