A man is "lucky" to a be short bestie.

Go figure....

I have this female friend. She met this guy at a some event she went to. She said she took him back to her place the same evening, but "nothing happened". She then said she felt like she was taken over mentally, like how she was under a spell because she would never take someone back to her place. Afterwards she talked about how she eventually ghosted the guy but is now scared because he knows where she lives.

I know this person pretty well. She plays hard to get often and has orbiters who she'll call to use for things like giving her rides to get groceries, or picking up her dry cleaning. The orbiters, I know one of them and he's a short guy.

Anyway, I asked her the platinum question - "How tall is he?".

She said. "I don't know, about 6'4". Then she got quiet and changed the subject.

See, she did this because her and I have talked about height before, and after that conversation, she avoids talking about height when the topic of dating comes up. She got quiet because she was able to put two and two together, perhaps realizing that "spell" was a byproduct of his height. I'm pretty sure she left some important details from that story.

Whenever I hear stories similar to this, the guy is always without question, tall.

Another woman I know was in a relationship with a guy who she'd always brag about being 6'7. She eventually left him because he kept cheating, even though she would give the guy threesomes regularly.

One day she was talking about how angry she was because right after their break up, her two supposed best friends were trying to date him. She cut them off.

To this day, both still talk about those guys.

How nice it must be to be tall. 

Shorter guys get upset about something and it's "Napoleon complex", "I gave a short guy a chance".

These dudes can run through a whole cheer-leading squad, knock other women up, cheat on their girlfriends with their own best friends, and still they're still secretly wanting to be with them.

Translation: She's 37 and has no takers, so has to lower her bid.

Gentleman, beware of this type.

Go figure....

You can find the full content in this New York Post article here.

You get the privilege of working hard for her when her much taller previous boyfriends didn't have to.

Go figure...

This may be very uncomfortable for some, but I want to reiterate a point made by a conversation that I came across on another social platform.

If you are able to have and maintain friendships with women, then your personality cannot be the problem, no matter how much detractors would like you to be believe. You've seen these detractors. They say things like "get outside and touch grass", or "get therapy".

What is the difference between a friendship and a romantic relationship? Yes, you guessed it, physical attraction and intimacy. 

If you're not able to land relationships, then your height (or looks) have to be the problem. After all, who would want to be around someone that they don't find interesting, beneficial or at the very least entertaining enough to continue interacting with.

Don't let people gaslight you into thinking your personality is repulsive because if you have friends, clearly your character isn't the issue.

There is no need to break the news to this fellow. Life will teach him. 

Can you guess what the number one or most bought up physical trait was?

Has to be an older millennial or perhaps younger Gen-X discussing from his point of view, how dating has changed drastically from the 2010s to the 2020s.