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Quick idea ..
I would like to be able to bookmark/favorite/save forum posts.
Which you then can find on your own profile if you ever want to re-read or need sources for a future debate.
This will save your own browsers toolbar, since, at least for me, this forum is anonymous and i dont want people in my life to find out, that i let out all my feelings and have issues.
I think every short guy have gone through what you currently are, me included. Understanding it is nothing anyone can do, only the ones who have been in your shoes. Personally i experience it on and off and i blame my height when people dont take me seriously, interupt, og thinking that my calls are unrealistic and not logical.
I've felt myself insecure when dating and mostly leaving the girl to do a lot of the work reguarding showing interest and setting up things "to my right leg" as we in Denmark call it, which basically means doing something that is so obvious and easy to do.
You might consider changing therapist since there are a vereity out there that handles things differently. You may never find someone who fully understand you, but you might find someone who can give you tools to handle things better.
Let me sound arrogant for a second. I might be what is considered attractive, or at least so i am told countless times. I might not be super hot or be the instagram with 1 million followers. But i have decent facial features and body structure wise aswell.
To put it into perspective, you probably find some women attactive even if they have something that will give you reason to doubt it.
For instance, take Kim Kardashian, many people find her attractive, but her stupid attitude and her low IQ put together with the amount of work she goes through to become this attractive, will leave any reasonable smart guy with the decision that he will never ever be with someone like her.
Havnt you ever heard "Short guys that are attractive is such a waste"?
i didnt read the article, but there is truth to it. And my personal experience over the past 5 years. It couldnt be more accurate in many instances. Altho there is also a flipside, either violent or totally depressed. Usually both anger and then drepression afterwards, since you will eventually run out of energy when being mad.
But never the less, Yes it does, and for good reason.