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Not a fan of bucket hats and fitteds. If anything, I'll go with a Fedora or Driver hat. Those speak fashion and style. Bucket hat says to me "old man". Fitted hat says to me "Trying to act like a teen or 21 yr old". I'm a little older than that and want my style to say "Grown man, A game".
Yes, I notice this. It's almost that height can allow for lack of facial attractiveness and other physical flaws to be forgiven by a lot of women. If a man is a 6 in the face, he suddenly becomes an 8 if he is 6' or taller. Shorter guys like us have to "make it up" somewhere else. If we are a 10 in the face, we suddenly drop to a 6 or 7 if we are under 5'9. Shorter women I think want to say, "I can get a 'real' man too" so they can be noticed. It's an accomplishment. My 5'1 friend only dates men 6' or taller. When asked why, she said that she wants to feel like she's conquering something. It sounds bizarre, but I think shorter women overcompensate by only going for guys much taller than themselves.
I think it is completely cultural. There is no reason why a 5'6 woman can be completely okay with dating a 5'10 man but a 5'3 woman would not be content with a 5'7 guy. Most of the shortest women I know only date really tall guys and groan with discontent if a short guy shows any interest in them. I don't know how and why I am able to date so many short women though. I must be one of the lucky ones.
What are you so fearful of?
Sorry that you're going through this pal. I would get a hold of my lawyer immediately. It sounds like her mind is already made up and there is no going back. She was blunt and to the point about where her mind is and that she doesn't love you in that way anymore. Besides, why work on the marriage? If she did it once, she'll do it again. I would start considering who gets custody and what the aftermath of a divorce might be like. It is probably better that you initiate it before she gets her thoughts together on it. If she kept it going on this long, it would have been a matter of time before she pulled the wool over your eyes and called it quits. Consider it a blessing.