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What are you so fearful of?
Sorry that you're going through this pal. I would get a hold of my lawyer immediately. It sounds like her mind is already made up and there is no going back. She was blunt and to the point about where her mind is and that she doesn't love you in that way anymore. Besides, why work on the marriage? If she did it once, she'll do it again. I would start considering who gets custody and what the aftermath of a divorce might be like. It is probably better that you initiate it before she gets her thoughts together on it. If she kept it going on this long, it would have been a matter of time before she pulled the wool over your eyes and called it quits. Consider it a blessing.
Have you considered changing your schedule so you two don't have to see each other at work. If your GM gives you flack, this might be a good way to help calm things down.
Block her on FB immediately and do not take to any outside, unprofessional conversation. If she approaches you, politely and quickly remove yourself from any kind of contact involving her. Ask your GM to prevent you two from working together, even on projects at any time.
You can get through this. You have to be consistent and firm.
There is a post on r/short where they are talking about post-op. Basically, two patients who went overseas caught major pin site infections and may have to have both legs amputated. I wouldn't touch that surgery with a ten foot pole.