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Congrats on your career. Just maintain a thick-skin and you'll be fine. Just like everyone, I get put down and when I do, I make a comeback. If I can do it, you can do it. I am currently an undergraduate student with the emphasis of going to law school.
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When I was younger, I used to have a much more positive attitude about women and even identified a bit as a feminist, but that changed when I learned how many (most of them) see me and will always see me. Now I'm skeptical when dealing with women romantically on the rare occasion when I get a chance.
It seems like no one is "fine" with my height but always makes excuses. He's short but is a great guy etc etc.
It's understandable why this view would be held. However, one must be careful with this. I understand what you're saying and just say this: be careful when dealing with women because most of them do have height biases. I say that women are to be treated as ONLY acquaintances, never for relationships; this is because short men will always receive negative treatment from the contemporary woman. Just go MGTOW.
The title says all; I will explain: A way to address heightism is by making shortness , stylish. To do this, would mean that companies would have to hire short male models. The problem is, nowadays consumer market economy/culture forces companies and businesses to use only what is deemed attractive; they make what is stylish and trendy. Becuase there aren't short male models or short lead male actors, we receive this treatment. Being portrayed as that silly, unserious follower needs to stop. And thus, being short is considered unattractive. That's the problem. As a shorter man, you need to be stylish. To push this even farther, you need to be kind of mainstream. We also need supporters.
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I'm probably going to be downvoted to hell here, but your question is very broad. We don't know context, how she interacts with others and what the purpose of her being in your presence is (is she in the same course as you? some woman you see from time to time while going from class to class? etc?).
Generally, if a woman is into you and interacts with your regularly, she'll be super nice to you (even if she is a b*** in general, this is why you need to see her interact with others). She'll be available often even if she's busy. She'll laugh at your jokes even if they're corny and she'll also make an effort to do things for you.
If you haven't gotten that far into knowing her, then simple smiles, locking eyes, catching a peep when you're not looking, making the effort to talk to you.
But you have to know CONTEXT. If you share the same class with her and she is nice to you, she could be looking for a study buddy and drop you at the end of the semester.
Look at the big picture and be cautious. If she is in your class, then trying to chat her up to date is not a good idea. Never sh*** where you eat. If the fall out is bad, it will affect your performance and piece of mind in the class.
Thanks for the answer! You have given me valuable tips. Of course, I'm probably friend-zoned. After the quarter just ended, I felt like I was dropped. In terms of the class issue, you're right. I guess I'll just resort to going MGTOW (As if I had a choice).