Anyone resent women a bit after learning how much they value height?

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Anyone resent women a bit after learning how much they value height?
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When I was younger, I used to have a much more positive attitude about women and even identified a bit as a feminist, but that changed when I learned how many (most of them) see me and will always see me. Now I'm skeptical when dealing with women romantically on the rare occasion when I get a chance.

It seems like no one is "fine" with my height but always makes excuses. He's short but is a great guy etc etc. 

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Never. It is a rude awakening for sure, but as you get to learn people, you realize that people like what they like. There are certain women that I'd never be interested because they don't meet my physical (weight, race, height, style) requirements. I would never feel like I "had" to date what I don't like. 

It sucks that many women have written men like us off but with all of the relationships problems everywhere plus all of the women I've been able to get physically involved with, I don't feel any sort of negative feeling toward women who wouldn't give me a second look. 

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I posted this in a few sites.  I think it is worth reading.

 

After reading this blog and a few others like it, I thought I would present a few tall women episodes in my life during early 20’s, as I was rejected by the women who chased after the Alfa males and showed no more interest in me than glancing at a blade of grass next to the highway traveling at 75 MPH.  And this made me think about my own personal experiences with tall women, a slightly different story from this blog, but same result due to being a Beta male. 

I will start with a 6’ tall girl, in a gym, who talked to me with such a look of disinterested she couldn’t have looked or acted more uninterested if she had wanted to.  I approached another, who I estimated being 5 foot 9 or 10 inches.  She got angry with me for even asking her out and then stuck her finger in my face informing me she didn’t date shorter men.  On line, I met a girl 5’11”, and we worked out together once in my apartment complex gym, after that she did not return my two phone calls, there could be others, too, I just don’t remember them all.  Now, you may say the rejections were because of my looks, that could be true, but as I approached girls closer to my height, my success rate went way up.

This blog also made me think about the rejections by tall girls, and it angered me, but not at the time the rejection.  Only years later, when I actually tallied them up, did I get angry.  I was rejected not because I was fat, bald, ugly, deformed or had a rotten personality.  No.  The reason I was rejected by all of these women was my height.

I did date three women who were significantly taller than me, two at 5’11” and one at 5’10”.  (I am 5’8”)  And all three happened to be 32 years of age, which is more than a coincidence.  No doubt, all three wanted a tall Alfa male, and lost, so a safe Beta male was the next best thing.  I didn’t grow any taller, and I doubt I got better looking.  These women were past their prime and worried.   I was in my late 30’s, at this time of my life, after being married for 10 years.   It was also at this time, I could easily date younger women, and I did.  When I was 38, my first girlfriend was 27, the next was 27 and the next was 24 who became my second wife.  I never dated with any intent of marrying a woman my age.  Younger women had no issue with me dating them, and I certainly had no issue dating them.  I remember going to singles events and seeing very pretty women, who were my age, who I know 15 years earlier wouldn’t have given me the time of day.  And even now, may have looked better than myself, but now it was me who had no interest in approaching them.  I did not want to take time and money away from pursuing younger women.  Why go old, when I could go young?

I am now married and have 4 sons. I could have provided a good life to any girl.  I wanted a taller girl because of the physical turn on and to for fill one of my desires, yet not one single tall girl (in her 20’s) gave me a chance.  I was turned down consistently and without a second thought.  So, if you find yourself in your late 20’s or early 30’s with no prospect of a husband or children, you have no one to blame but yourself.  There were men like me, who wanted a leggy female, but they, like me, were never accorded the opportunity.  (This also applies to average height women, too)  And the reality is that the vast majority of tall women will not even consider a shorter man until it is too late.  You would think it would be obvious that if you included shorter males in your suitor selection, your odds would increase of finding a mate, for there are a lot more short and medium height males than there are taller ones.  So my advice would be to accept the advances of all men and get to know them.  I, who would have relished the opportunity of having curvy broad hips and a tapered waist to hold all night and to make love to into the early hours of the morning, was never, not once, even given a chance to start a relationship.  Thus, throw away the yardstick, for you may find someone like me, who would love to share his life and love with a leggy lady.

By the way, another tie in with this article and be found at this web site.

              shortkingz.com/P-57/beware-of-the-reformed-heightist-woman

This writer tells about women’s rejections in his 20’s, only to find that women now chased after him, in spite of his height, now he is in his early 30’s.  He warns of the dangers of the “Reformed Heightest WomEn” who are desperate after wasting their lives chasing after Alfa males and now want a stable Beta with a steady pay-check.

Here is anther on how women who found the Mr. Average (Beta Males) were worth nothing in their 20’s and now that these women are in their 30’s can’t buy a date, even from the Beta Males, titled “Why women lose in the dating game”

               smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/why-women-lose-the-dating-game-20120421-1xdn0.html

During their 20s, women compete for the most highly desirable men, the Mr Bigs. Many will readily share a bed with the sporty, attractive, confident men, while ordinary men miss out. As Whiskey puts it at whiskeysplace.wordpress.com: ''Joe Average Beta Male is about as desirable to women as a cold bowl of oatmeal.''

''I can't believe how many men my age are only interested in younger women,'' wails Gail, a 34-year-old advertising executive as she describes her first search through men's profiles on the RSVP internet dating site. She is shocked to find many mid-30s men have set up their profiles to refuse mail from women their own age.

Talking to many women like her, it's intriguing how many look back on past relationships where they let good men get away because they weren't ready. American journalist Kate Bolick wrote recently in The Atlantic about breaking off her three-year relationship with a man she described as ''intelligent, good-looking, loyal and kind''. She acknowledged ''there was no good reason to end things'', yet, at the time, she was convinced something was missing in the relationship. That was 11 years ago. She's is now 39 and facing grim choices.

Here is an interesting article for a women who transgendered to a man, who finds how women treat him poorly due to this height of 5’9”.

             libertyviral.com/is-living-life-better-as-a-man-or-woman-a-transgender-tells-hisher-story/

When I identified as female, I was somehow awesome for being on the taller end of femme, but now? Now, I’ve been called a “manlet” for being a hair under average male height – because apparently men get to be treated like *bleep* for something that they can’t control. I’ve also noticed that, while dating women, a lot of them won’t even go NEAR you if you’re under 6 feet tall. Which is bullshit.

As a woman, I was free to be as shitty as I wanted, in personality, as well – in my (very stupid) younger man-hating years, no one was mad, and people even ENCOURAGED me to be a man hater! Now, as a man, I am apparently not even allowed to voice my opinion on women’s rights. Doesn’t matter that I still have breasts, a vagina, and two X chromosomes – nope. Because I pass as male, I have suddenly lost my ability to understand the plight of poor womenfolk.
 

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Originally posted by myles21

When I was younger, I used to have a much more positive attitude about women and even identified a bit as a feminist, but that changed when I learned how many (most of them) see me and will always see me. Now I'm skeptical when dealing with women romantically on the rare occasion when I get a chance.

It seems like no one is "fine" with my height but always makes excuses. He's short but is a great guy etc etc. 

It's understandable why this view would be held.  However, one must be careful with this.  I understand what you're saying and just say this: be careful when dealing with women because most of them do have height biases.  I say that women are to be treated as ONLY acquaintances, never for relationships; this is because short men will always receive negative treatment from the contemporary woman.  Just go MGTOW.  

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Honestly, i have hatred towards women, and it has destroyed me as a person. 

I used to be the nice guy, the perfect friend. But as i kept getting rejected due to my height i lost my temper. 

And sure, as a man you need to be able to handle rejection, since society is build up in this fucked up way, where men have to be the one who takes initiative.
Maybe you can handle 100 rejections, maybe you can handle 1000 rejections. But eventually the 101'st rejection will come, and it will crash all the previous ones down on you. Especially when its cause the same reason!

Now, i've turned 180 degrees. Im super mean, im overdominant, even towards other guys for being my competitors.
I despise women. I call them sluts, i point out everything bad about them, and in general i am just a pure hearted devil towards women who makes them feel bad, and the best part of it. I enjoy it, its feels like sweet revenge.
 

I've completely given up on women. I no longer take initiave. Which forces them to do it, fx on tinder, But that also means i settle with the most ugly women on the planet. And i even get mad at them for being shallow when picking me cause they think im hot ASF, but i dont care about how they look. It makes no sense.

And all of that is based on jealousy. I am jealous cause they have such an easy time finding a sex partner when i dont. I am jealous cause they have the opotunity to find someone they find attractive when i dont. I am not an ugly guy, i am farely attractive facial and body wise. 
I am trying to work it out, but its not easy, it hell of a journey. Emotionally im distant cause im fighting with my self, accepting how the world is. And im unrealisticly bitter about it.

 

Dont be like me, it will destroy your life. Try and find a way to deal with it as soon as possible.

 

The only positive thing that comes out of it, is that it gives me motivation. To one day become someone who will reject all the shallow women for being the way towards me. Maybe i've experience more than the avegare short guy i dont know.
But i look myself in the mirror, and tell myself. "One day i will become a god" And that is what gets me up in the morning and keep fighting untill i go down swinging.

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Mr. Multi.  I have traveled the world.  My advise to you would be to move to where women are smaller on average, but good looking.  I would move to Texas and live in Mission, Texas or anywhere close to the Texas/Mexican boarder.  Also, San Antonio would be another place to move to.  The women are of Mexican origin and are smaller on average in height, but they have the female curves i.e. breasts, waist and hips.  Some are fat, but most are not and are attractive.  I am sure you can look on dating sites, and check out the locations I have mentioned to prove what I have said is true.  If you are educated, this will make you more of a catch because many men down there are not college educated.  I would say the women there are between 5' and 5'5".  This is what I would have done, but I am married.  At 5'8", I know what is it to be treated poorly due to your height.

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Mr. Multi.  I have traveled the world.  My advise to you would be to move to where women are smaller on average, but good looking.  I would move to Texas and live in Mission, Texas or anywhere close to the Texas/Mexican boarder.  Also, San Antonio would be another place to move to.  The women are of Mexican origin and are smaller on average in height, but they have the female curves i.e. breasts, waist and hips.  Some are fat, but most are not and are attractive.  I am sure you can look on dating sites, and check out the locations I have mentioned to prove what I have said is true.  If you are educated, this will make you more of a catch because many men down there are not college educated.  I would say the women there are between 5' and 5'5".  This is what I would have done, but I am married.  At 5'8", I know what is it to be treated poorly due to your height.

 

 

Mr Multi The cost of living here in Hawaii is ridiculous but the average height is shorter here also. I am 5'3 which is still short but overall because of the mix of Asian races here, people are shorter.  Anyway, I feel your pain.  Happy new year bro.

 

 

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Thank you for the guidence.

But the issue also goes deeper than just my height. Im also an immigrant. Half Arab, which, yea gives me a nice tan look. But im also judge as being a muslim, which im not. And you guys should know what image they have in the media throughout the westeren world.

Never the less. Im not done with my education as a Marine and technical engineer yet. So i might hold back with the moving just yet. Besides i rather want to be smack in the middle of the fight, and take down as many as i can, change peoples view, and one day become a rolemodel of the short community! smile

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Thank you for the guidence.

But the issue also goes deeper than just my height. Im also an immigrant. Half Arab, which, yea gives me a nice tan look. But im also judge as being a muslim, which im not. And you guys should know what image they have in the media throughout the westeren world.

Never the less. Im not done with my education as a Marine and technical engineer yet. So i might hold back with the moving just yet. Besides i rather want to be smack in the middle of the fight, and take down as many as i can, change peoples view, and one day become a rolemodel of the short community! smile

You know what though? You're going to want for nothing when you're done with your education. Yeah, education isn't a ticket to becoming a chick magnet, but you'll be better than the millions out there who live check to check, and the confidence you get from being accomplished will increase your SMV

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I hate women, if I am hearing about a woman getting raped and I am seeing she is an attractive girl I am thinking Good, if I am seeing a girl who is attractive in a store and she is dressing provactively I am wanting top punch her I am definetly a Mysoginst