Boyfriend changed on me...

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Boyfriend changed on me...
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I joined here to basically ask a question but hope you guys don't mind me sticking around! I know this is for short guys but, ya know... lol

 

Anyways, I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months now. Out of no where, he changed, he was so confident and cocky and now the smallest thing, even when I joke, it gets to him. He is 5'6 and I am 5'4. I cracked a joke about him wearing my heels to reach the top cabinent when we first startd dating and he actually put some on and we were laughing histarically. Well, i joked about something simular with him a few days ago and he snapped at me. He actually left really mad and didn't talk to me for 2 days. When he finally answered, he pretended nothing happened. 

 

So my question is, can he have issues with his height that he didn't care about in the begining that he suddely cares about now that we are more serious? 

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It could be that he didn't let it bother him in the beginning or he could have hid it from you that it bothered him.

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Sounds like something triggered him to change. It could have always been there but something set it off again. Has any of your friends ever commented on his height? Or maybe your family?

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Could be 1000 different things but it is best to just ask him. If he says nothing is wrong. Ask again. If he gets mad, then something is wrong and he doesn't want to talk about it. Just tel him you are there for him when he is ready.

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I agree with Catman. You need to talk to him about it. No one on here will be able to help.

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He ended up opening up and said that he had heightism his whole life and when we started dating he was so happy he forgot about it, and didn't think about his height. I guess that makes sense. Once we settled into each other he started looking at his body again.

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Originally posted by Jelly Kelly He ended up opening up and said that he had heightism his whole life and when we started dating he was so happy he forgot about it, and didn't think about his height. I guess that makes sense. Once we settled into each other he started looking at his body again.

Glad to hear you two worked through it and he was honest about his insecurities. He must trust you a lot. 

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