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Are there actually those who are blind to what short guys go through?
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I just had an argument with someone because I was enthusiastically agreeing with an article on here. I spoke on how being called cute, as a short guy, is NOT a complement. It's the type of thing that they say to guys that they probably would NEVER have sex with. This is what they say when they see a baby, a puppy, or an outfit they like...should we just be happy that they are calling us cute at all? Even if it essentially means nothing? The person that I had the argument with says, "That's not true, girls call all different kinds of guys cute!" ....but when I think about the people I've met, they have tall mates. (...or at least taller than me) On top of that, my own life experiences have shown me (through female family members, friends, and former potential love interests) that even when there are positive comments made about short guys, there is usually a joke about how it WOULD be to be with them (or me, in cases of love interests)...so things of this sort don't make me feel like we get a fair shot at things of love, and probably other things too without us knowing it.
What do you think? Am I just bitching about it, or do I have merit to feel this way?