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This post may be viewed by those who with certain beliefs and will be considered the views of "Napoleon Complex". Nonetheless, I will continue to express my thoughts: that as a man, you are to use your small-statured characteristic for your advantage. I'm pretty sure that some of you already know that. However, let me elaborate. I say, use your height as a way to progress to earn your dream. Whether it would be education, careers, sports etc., use your height to invest towards your dreams. One thing what this gene has taught me to do was to develop a thick skin and persevere. It has taught me to aim BIG. Think of 'adversity' as a win win. With that being said, if girl were to reject you for being small-statured, then you dodged a bullet. Clearly, she is shallow and inane. Hence, instead of giving time to these girls, give time to your studies/preparation for your dream. A dream that will grant you earned reverence.
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hey whats up everyone i just want to tell you i thought the same thing.So i moved to China of course i live in capital I can tell you that on average the guys are between 5'8-5'10 its not uncommon to see one over 6ft. At 5'4 I'm still the shortest guy at work or pretty much wherever i go but i will say there are a bit more shorter guys here but on average they are about 5'8 and up.
as for the girls id say between 5'3 and 5'5 of course there are many between 5'7-5'9. while its easy for me to find girls here it can be a little difficult because as a culture they like for their men to be at least 180cm so sometimes if you write a girl online she will immediately ask u for your height and when i say 170cm she will delete me sometimes.
Also a lot of people you meet will ask u where you're from when i say I am american they will ask me why are you not tall americans are supposed to be tall.
So in China it actually worse sometimes especially as an american because they expect all americans to be over 6ft I have been here for 4 years. i actually had to learn chinese before i could really get any girls out on dates because when you go to where the foreigners are they are looking for a guy 6ft and up . So i learned chinese and sort of stick to where the foreigners aren't so it kind of increases my chances but I'm telling you if you think China is the promise land guess again ,I mean at least beijing isnt
Now I will say I have also been to Philippines and those girls are short 4'11-5'3 the guys are also around 5'3-5'8 that was a little bite better. Any way I hope this helps
Right now South America would be your promise land. Boliva, Peru, places like that. Height discrimination was actually legal in China until 2005, so while everyone says "go to Asia" it isn't what it's cracked up to be.
I have to disagree with this approach. The last time I want is to push the idea that we are attractive down people's throat. Perhaps its gotten fat chicks some respect in the media, but it's not like people are squirming to date them in droves. Men still have their hangups with fat women.
I've seen plenty of celebrity couples where the woman is taller, but rarely do I see it in real life on a regular basis. I once dated a woman who was 5'10 for four months. We didn't break up because of height, but because I had to relocate for a higher position at my company and she wasn't willing to move.
I can't say I've dated mostly taller women, but I have dated a few who were my height.
So how often do you see tall women with short men and how tall was the tallest woman you've dated?