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Honestly, 3 reasons

1. I've been bullied and not accepted by others so i wanted to stand strong, and the best way, or at least i thought it was the best way, was to hang with the hard guys.
Those who are feared in the community and get some sort of respect when everything else failed.
So i became one of them, wanting the respect and have the people from the past see what I've become.

Funny episode was when i was at a party, talking to some random people from my neighborhood and from my previous school, telling that i wanted to beat someone up that have bullied me.
A few weeks later i saw the bully in the gym, he spotted me and then immediately left, i never saw him in the gym again.

2. Women are messed up in their mind and find a badboy attractive for what ever reason.
As any other 17-18+ year old i wanted in on the action. (sex restriction age in Denmark is 15)
 

3. Im an immigrant in my own country. Im born and raised here tho. But that doesnt stop the racism and judgements that people and politicians lay upon you. And eventually you start believe that, when people say that you are a criminal, you have to be one.
Another factor is that immigrants tend to befriend eachother for having the whole different skintone difference in common, so its just a unlocked door waiting to be opened.

 - Its also explained in the previous post that ive linked

Thank you ThatFlyShortGuy

As in my 25th year, i've recently been reflecting on my life and what made me to who i am today.
And what should i have been doing differently despite the life events out of my hands?

- Not desperately wanting to fit in

I was never a happy child, and as majority in here i was a victim of the cruel bully'world.
Being bullied never made me strong, it made the quite the opposite. It made do strange things to get attention.
It become very hard for me to make friends which to this day is still an issue, and have been so throughout my entire life.

Instead of being the wierdo, the clown and the guy who would always dare to do dangerous stuff, I should have stayed more calm and not being busy getting bad attention.

- Not joining a bad crew

As i grew older, i was poor on friends, i was always the substitute amoungst a group, which basically means that I was the 2nd or 3rd pick when it came to hanging out as we called it.

When i reached the age of 17 i had the opportunity to befriend myself with someone lesser people, which i did.
As in my previous many years i have been bullied, people not wanting to befriend me, and being disrespected, it was nice.
 

I joined a crew of tough guys. And my daily routine was to hang out during the night, stealing what ever i could get my hands on. Being the hard guys at any party with a bad attitude. And in general being a propper badboy.
While i enjoyed some parts of the life. It was very hard getting out off, and i still see the results to this day. I attract other people who are or have been like me, despite gender.
I hate it and i think that the women that have been like me are gross, and im having a hard time accepting other peoples past.

- Being insecure

I touched this topic in one of previous posts http://shortkingz.com/topic/me-vs-society-my-darkside-warning-wall-of-text-1067

But to recap the long lifestory, I've not had succes with women previously in my life.
And it ripped me to pieces with the consequence that i became very insecure when the topic was picking up women and keeping a relationship. Altho it took me 5-6 years to reach the level of insecurity that i have today.
In other words i became the female, not really having the balls to take initative when i started liking a girl.
If i could just gather more confidence without hesitating.
This is a recent problem of mine that i wish i could change.

- Not being busy with dating

This is pretty related to what is above. But i spend my entire start - mid 20's looking for girls to hook up with. The first 3 years was unsuccesful and it was the hardest time of my life, changed to something unrecognisable.
If i just havnt been so desperate for female attention i think my 20's would have been very very different and not changing me into something that i do not want to be today.
It have the consequence that i judge women on their past; How their lifestyle have been in their youths, how many they have slept with, what kind of guys they are attracted to and any opinions that they hold differently from what i do.
And in general i hold grudge.

While there are much much more to be told and changed this is probably the essential things in a few poorly described words.
What would you change?

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My Point exactly. And other people also tend to participate in the bulling to become a member of the bulling community to become one of the cool ones.

Some changes I personally would like, and i think that many would agree

- Login

Every time open the site you have to login, Instead just make it login when ever you open the site like facebook or almost every other forum. You also get rid of the annoying "sight up" popup.

- Captcha

Logging in with a captcha is fine, but at least make it so you dont have to every single time, maybe once a week. Or just when signing up. There is not really any need for it once you have signed up, especially not with an active admin staff.

- Posting new topics

When you post new topics, that is either very long, or you decide to take a break to return. It will either log you out, or tell you that you do not have permission to post even when logged in, deleting the 20 minutes of text and consideration.

- Edit limit

Apperently there is a limit on how many times you can edit a post?

- "Do you want to create a poll?"

For unknow reasons 99% of the topics do not have a poll in it, so why even have that as a requirement when posting and not just as an extra feature as uploading a picture.