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I've been to this site and it's full of research with pages and pages worth of posts. Don't know how long they've been at it but they suggest all of these things you can do to grow taller though none of the stuff there has been confirmed by anyone in the medical community nor has anyone commented "hey this works!" in any of their comments. Are they legit or full of s***?
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Exactly! Never on this thread did I say I find them unattractive because of their height. I have only been stating that based on their consistent actions, I would rather not date one again if its going to be the same insecure BS about height issues. Seems like most of the ones responding are validating my point even more. I wouldn't call you a bigot because you're going based off of experience and not ignorance. But just the simple fact that these topics aren't brought up and addressed, the BS insecurities will continue.
Your post does not come off this way though and that is why you are getting the response you're getting here. It is okay to openly mock men and "punish" short men for their "insecurities" (which are often caused by experiences outside of their person). You cannot tell someone how to process what they experience. Having empathy is more appropriate. You can tell a short man to not let what happens to him affect him, but everyone is different. I am sure there are some dark skinned women who are very confident about themselves, but due to my experiences I would most likely decline taking the plunge, and it won't stop dark women from getting *bleep* from society.
This doesn't cover up your ignorance however because you are still painting everything with a broad brush (me included).
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Hello everyone!
based of that one traumatic experience, I highly doubt I will EVER date a short man again, hence my username NEVERAGAIN. His height issues had an effect of many aspects of his life, which is why I call it "traumatic". I've only dated taller men (5'11 and up) since and even they have had height insecurities (believe it or not).
I once dated an african american woman who was what you might called "dark-skinned". Her issues had an effect on many aspects of her life. I'd call that "traumatic" and enough that I steer clear of them even though I do find them attractive. Difference is most people would call me a bigot if I bought this up in conversation.