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Being attractive and confident will add perceived inches to your frame.
I've had people exclaim when they met me in person that they imagined a larger man, based on my accomplishments and reputation. Let's be real for a moment, guys. Yeah, at first I was a bit taken aback. You know the drill. But, I took it as a compliment.
But, if you come across as a a too-confident jerk, or if people see you as angry, insecure, ticked-off, full of despair, etc. you lose twice.
People will respect you and love you and enjoy your company if they think this thought, "He's short, but he is attractive and successful because he overcame a raw deal and succeeded anyway." That's sexy to good people. Forget what bad people think.
Why does my height need to tie into my attractiveness? I don't need "perceived" inches, just respect
This just proves heightism exists. People needn't "imagine" a tall person when they think of someone as being successful
I thought you told us just to be confident. Why should "too much" confidence matter?
In other words, you're telling us to "know our place"
Because it is a nature rule, you need to be taller to prove your privileges, to prove you are stronger and you can fight
against other males. Naturally women prefer taller and (and maybe muscular) men.
(You may look up the Internet for Male Animals Fight for Dominance!, you will understand it.)
Being short and confident wont help unless you are behind the camera. I totally agree with your statement, why on earth would
we as short men be more confident? Why too much confidence? Doesn't it mean that we are being blamed for what we had no control over it?
As answer to other fellows, i think it's already late to think about having children unless you want to have a teenager about 15 years old at home
when you are in 60s. Have you ever heard about adolescence traumas? I wouldn't do that I were you. Maybe adopting a child is an option, a child which
doesn't carry short genes.
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On the other hand, the divorces and related financial hits that my friends have experienced I have been protected from, all because women don't find me attractive enough to want to partner with.
It's like my experience. I'm not sure if i would address my height as a reason for having no family or
should i be more concern about my luck? Anyhow, I'm happy now, hard days are over and I am in a less need for a partner. I prefer to spend
my time doing my hobbies and that's like a lot of hobbies I can't get enough time almost always.
My experience tells me that almost every woman who smiles at my smiles is looking for a financial supporter and she looks back as me she is out of shape with no intention to lose weight and on some other occasions she's looking for more money to get divorce later and join her dreamy man on an easier path. Women don't see
us as a man unless they pass the golden years of youth, so we are not good targets unless we provide money, power and luxury.
You will never be a man in their sights and maybe in a really good situation you will be a cute boy, so what do you expect from a woman who is surrounded by horny tall guys ?
You are so wrong if you think about being confident and being short would do the trick, that definitely doesn't work. It's a myth. We all know.
On the other hand life is not about being married and making children, life is about having fun and being happy.
You make your life.
It is good to hear that the situation is much better out there. I never thought of immigration to Canada and currently there is no chance I can go to Canada. Honestly there was serious chance the other year I could get USA visa but pondering around the issue I figured out it would not be a good choice to live in a society where I am going to seem shorter comparing to other men. I don't regret my decision now.
This country is ruined doubtlessly. The people are gone for far deep in corruptness and no one shows mercy to others. There is no ethics and it hurts sometimes when you have to face situations you cant handle. If you need to know more about Iranians, I would recommend that you read this article on Wikipedia about Kleptocracy and see the Effects part especially.
Once a guy told me something that I would never forget. "A bald short guy is doomed." he said. I am going to add another word to it to make it sense more. "A bald short Iranian guy is doomed.". I had a good girlfriend for years, she never made fun of short body nor my balding head. She was awesome. We broke years ago and it is years I'm single and honestly I'm enjoying it. I think I have more time to spend on my hobbies and I definitely need less sexual desire as I'm aging. Things are now different and at the moment I have no intention to date someone, although there is obviously no one out there waiting for me.
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Come to Canada. Here it is much better. Sometimes professional models (5'10) are interested in me.
So how do you get dates?