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Not when shes on tinder shes not.
This is kinda of a long debate. There are multiple sides to it.
Men are shallow in many instance, but the thing is. So are women, and in my experience far more than men are. Women tend to "overscore" pulling men that are far more attractive then they are, at least when they are younger.
A small example that might make sense to you.
Socially men are the one to take initative, start a conversation, decide where the conversation is going and so on .. And all the woman has to do, is to put on some mascara, doesnt even matter how good looking she is.
If go back to the classic scale 1-10 where 10 being the hottest.
A woman that is a 6 will get a bunch inquiries from men on the scale from 1-8
As anybody else, she will choose the best looking, most status and fame.
That means that a woman that is a 6 can easily get an 8.
But that also means that the guys who are a 6 might only get a 4, and those who are a 4 might only get a 2 or 3.
You can imagine it as applying for a job.
The woman is the employer and the men are the employee. The employer will always chose the overqualified over the others.
These are the typical women that tend to go for looks, and the trashy guys so to speak.
They have a hard time finding the perfect guy cause they are so hard to satisfy and lose interest quickly in a guy, these are the kind of women that never grows up and stay at the age of 21 if they are 36.
Now when they get older and their looks are decaying, they still think they look the same, and are entitled to men who are at the top of the foodchain, complete unaware that in that age, dating values change from attractiveness to succes and life control.
It comes as no suprise that the men, that these type of women are dating, value looks and youth more, and therefor finds someone who still have some years of primetime.
Do you name the age difference cause you think it is to far of a gap?
Women tend to do the same, you often see a 5, 6, 7, 8 and even a far larger year gap, which is considered okay, and natural, why shouldnt it be okay when men do the same?
But she does seems as being in a bad position, which i think attracted them to each other in the first place.
Your brother is probably madly in love with her, as he previously being in a depression.
Its a very dangerous combo to meet someone when in a depression, i've been there, and know others who have. And the love they find during that period, does never ever end, even if it wasnt mutually.
Unfortunately these are the kind of women that short guys very often attract, and it can sometimes be hard and even prove to be a challenge to find something that is higher in the social hierarchy.
I think you should be careful, my advice would be, not to say anything directly, but sorta talk to him about his relationship and how she is as a person, and get some gossip insight, so you can point out some things in a gentle fassion that should be dislikeable about it, and not okay! And hopefully passively open his eyes.
The way you describe her, being with her is not a rational decision. So he must be blind.
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