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what i THINK and in my experience
Women that tends to be attracted to shorter guys, usually have a reason.
- They want to feel more power or superior than the man
- They have somehow experience violence/bad behavior from taller men, and therefore look for a guy that at least in their mind look weaker than their taller fellas.
I've been with a couple of girls, that said, they didnt like tall muscular guys. Even tho, i am very broad shouldered myself. But it turned out it was cause they've either been raped, or experienced abuse in their past relationships.
On the otherhand, those who are in a good spot in their life, that are attracted to shorter guys. May feel like it is a kind of a problem, that she can hug him shoulder to shoulder, that she tops him when wearing heels, She might feel less protected.
For not to mention the socially acceptable relationship where the girl is a head shorter than the guys. And might feel slight embarrassed when in public.
Some of the women i've been with that have been taller than me, have all felt like they think they are superior, and can get away with anything and control me.
The shorter the girl is, the more dominant she is trying to be, the taller she is, the more superior and arrogant. In my experience, the women closer to avarage heigh are the best. Even if im shorter than the avarage women in my country, i still feel they are the best to date. Even tho they tend to avoid me
Honestly, i have hatred towards women, and it has destroyed me as a person.
I used to be the nice guy, the perfect friend. But as i kept getting rejected due to my height i lost my temper.
And sure, as a man you need to be able to handle rejection, since society is build up in this fucked up way, where men have to be the one who takes initiative.
Maybe you can handle 100 rejections, maybe you can handle 1000 rejections. But eventually the 101'st rejection will come, and it will crash all the previous ones down on you. Especially when its cause the same reason!
Now, i've turned 180 degrees. Im super mean, im overdominant, even towards other guys for being my competitors.
I despise women. I call them sluts, i point out everything bad about them, and in general i am just a pure hearted devil towards women who makes them feel bad, and the best part of it. I enjoy it, its feels like sweet revenge.
I've completely given up on women. I no longer take initiave. Which forces them to do it, fx on tinder, But that also means i settle with the most ugly women on the planet. And i even get mad at them for being shallow when picking me cause they think im hot ASF, but i dont care about how they look. It makes no sense.
And all of that is based on jealousy. I am jealous cause they have such an easy time finding a sex partner when i dont. I am jealous cause they have the opotunity to find someone they find attractive when i dont. I am not an ugly guy, i am farely attractive facial and body wise.
I am trying to work it out, but its not easy, it hell of a journey. Emotionally im distant cause im fighting with my self, accepting how the world is. And im unrealisticly bitter about it.
Dont be like me, it will destroy your life. Try and find a way to deal with it as soon as possible.
The only positive thing that comes out of it, is that it gives me motivation. To one day become someone who will reject all the shallow women for being the way towards me. Maybe i've experience more than the avegare short guy i dont know.
But i look myself in the mirror, and tell myself. "One day i will become a god" And that is what gets me up in the morning and keep fighting untill i go down swinging.
Honestly, i am worried to death about being physical hurt. Which is why i tend to be emotionally distant from pretty much everything, it fixes everything, but also creates other problems.
Altho, i carry myself with confidence, answer back when people say something mean. You can always win an argument, or at least in your own mind you win it.
I've been using tinder for 2½ years now. And back then, noone was listing height. But i did notice that women tend not to have their height anymore unless they are very tall, or heavily demand a tall guy.
Women in general are ~15cm (6inch) on average shorter than men are, so they probably think that every man is taller than them.
I have my height in my profile. I tested it once, by removing my heigh, and i got a few more matches, nothing over dramatic tho.
how ever, when i have my height shown, i tend to get deleted shortly after and not recieving a reply. Which did not occur when my heigh was not shown.
I did how ever occasionally get asked how tall i am, where my respons would be how much she weighs, and if she was not fat, i would ask about her boob size. If she had big breasts and was not fat, well.. i dont have these matches.
But dont think for a second that it is because they dont care about it.
Gotta bring some light to the table .. Im currently seeing a girl from tinder(friends with benefits) She is 7 cm taller than i am.