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ThatFlyShortGuy

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Height: 5'7

Location: Queens, NYC, United States

Joined: Apr 16, 2014

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Re: Girls at the bar

Hi nimrofyosi. Welcome to the forum.

Yes, this happens all over the world and it won't be just because of your height, but many times it will be because of your height.

Develop a thick skin and get used to it. It will be hard. Remember though that women can be extremely brutal in a bar setting where they are constantly being pursued (and this can be in any social setting for that matter).

Short height will be a negative to many women, but what it means for you is to be tough minded, don't take it completely to heart (it will take time to let nasty comments roll off of your back) and keep approaching. 50 approaches with one win, is better than 10 approaches with none.

Learn to pick up on signals that a woman is interested, and back off if she isn't.

Know that men average height and tall get rejected all of the time, so it won't be unique to you.

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Re: I was not meant to be short, doctors stole my height.

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Originally posted by brazilianlad I'm sorry If I came up as a tool, this is a very stressfull subject to me, I don't consider LL surgery, that's too extreme, I just wanted to feel comfortable in my own skin. It's like the women that I will meet in my life will never be looking at the real me, but at a chemical result. Do you guys think I am overreacting? How would you feel If you found out that your short stature was induced by a medication? (now that I explained that my height is, indeed, the result of a drug). Please, I need help dealing with the fact that this is not my real body, but induced by a medication, I even have all the medical tests, from when I was 13, saying "the patient has short stature, induced by the use of corticosteroids". I'm sorry If I sounded like a dick, It wasn't my intention, I don't want every woman in the world, but I want to feel comfortable in my own skin. For example, going in blind dates would be impossible, since the woman might be taller than me, I think you guys understand me now. Sorry again, and please, I truly need your help.

The important thing to remember is that the past cannot be changed. For whatever reason a person is short, the fact is just that they are short. A woman who isn't interested in a short guy is not going to change her mind because of why you're short. Think, if you aren't into dating single mothers or women who aren't attractive, do you care why they have kids or why they aren't attractive? Once you grapple with this, you will be able to move past that "feeling".

Dating

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Re: I was not meant to be short, doctors stole my height.

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Originally posted by oneshortguy

At first, I felt bad for you. But now you are starting to sound like a tool. People on here have offered responses and told you what to do, yet you continue the feminine trait of whining. You could be 4'10"...would you prefer that height instead? Go get cosmetic limb lengthening and be done with it. No man on earth is desired by every woman... you know how ridiculous that sounds to say? Limb lengthen. It's your only solution.

Best answer in this thread.

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Originally posted by brazilianlad Quote:
The things is, I was not meant to be short, you are talking about men, that are naturally short, I had side effects, I was diagnosed, look It up "iatrogenic cushing's syndrome". I was given treatment for It, I am short because doctors were too stupid to know about side effects of corticosteroids. I bet everyone on this forum is naturally short, due to genetics, which is not my case. My dad is 5"11, come on, I literally had cushing's, which the main effect, is stunted growth, ALL my peers would comment on how my growth was slow, Jesus Christ, I remember ALL of this, and you say I am speculating? Even my doctors confirmed that I lost a few inches.

The point is, you are short right now as an adult, so yes, you were "meant to be short". The series of events that lead you to where you are today were a result of genetics, even if not directly tied to your height.