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This is the one thing short guys with your mindset have to get out of their heads. This comes from scarcity mindset.

So what if she can get a man? Most women can "get" men.

Does that mean:

a) she can keep him?

b) She can marry a high value man? (not a simp)

There will be some dumb beta chump who would try to wife this post-wall hack up, good for him. A guy who takes on a woman who has been ran through, married several times gets everything he deserves. Yes, I will admit that her being fit does help her a lot, but being fit will help you too.

Plenty of women can "get sex" and temporary company. You see this as a plus because it's not something that the average guy, regardless of height can get. He has to work for it, and the average short guy will have to work harder for it. "Getting sex" or "Getting someone" isn't a female struggle, so it shouldn't be something to be bummed out about. For them keeping a man is the struggle, especially if it is that 6ft guy they crave. They have a plethora of options and do not have to settle. 

Plenty of these women get cheated on and mistreated by high value men and resent the betas they marry (ultimately, carving out their insides in divorce court).

A short guy is not the equivalent to a fat female, a broke/unambitious guy is. 

It will take a while for you to understand this.

Men aren't made to look pretty, though looks help.

Men win in the end because we are not valued for our looks. Looks absolutely help, but we are judged by what we bring to the table. It will take you a while to understand this. You can be mad about it, but for every man who complains about women only being around for their accomplishments/lifestyle/status, I'll show you a man who is only around a woman because of her looks. 

For everyone who says, "Kevin Hart wouldn't have women were it not for his money", I'll show you a tall celebrity who would have the same luck, and would be ignored if he were a Pizza Delivery man.

Once you get this, you'll see that while being short is a HINDERANCE, it isn't a death sentence.

You learn this from dating and getting action. You get dates and action by upping your style, fitness, money and everything about your life in the up direction. 

There is no reason why a lot of 5'5 and 5'6 guys in this forum are reporting success if it "can't be"

Remember, there are too many factors. 

Ugly and short = two big struggles

The "Hot Short Guy" is actually a novel concept because it does exist.

I have friends from High School who were short, but had nice eyes according to the ladies and they had girls all over them.

Friends who were short in college, but dressed really well and wore the best colognes and had takers.

You guys need to get out and see the world for the trees. 

Once you understand this, a HUGE weight will be lifted from your shoulders. 

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We have to disagree here. First off, the comedian is on the older side and not the most attractive. I get that is subjective, but the fact that she has to "look" for "hot short guys" and that it is a compromise tells you all you need to know about her own dating situation.

Second, there seems to be two camps here. 

Camp 1 - Short guys are undesirable, there is no hope

Camp 2 - Yes, short is not a desired trait, but it's not THAT serious if you are at least 5'5. If you are less than 5'5, then you need to excellent in other areas.

I'm obviously in Camp 2.

Why Camp 2? Because 6ft guys get cheated on. 6ft guys get raked over the coals in Divorce Court. 6ft guys also catch false grape allegations and used. The fact that they are "more desirable" makes them more of a target.

6ft guys can be ugly. 6ft guys can be broke. 6ft guys can have a small member. 6ft guys can be overweight.

A 6ft guy can be turned down because of his race, A 6ft guy can be turned down because of his career choice

A 6ft guy can be turned down because he has children.

Etc Etc Etc

In reality, there is a smallER number of attractive guys, and even if you pass the "height test", there are still a bunch of hoops you have to pass through.

If you are short there will be many women you will NEVER have access too, but you can be tall and because of a number of reasons, you won't have access to those women anyway.

As a short man who has been successful in business, interpersonal relationships and in dating, I can't emphasize the amount of women who would blatantly say "I'd never date a short guy, but there's something about YOU...... etc".

At some point, we have to stop kicking the can down the road and blaming women, society.

A masculine man will say "I have XYZ against me... now what can I do about it?". 

Women are allowed to whine and complain.

Men have to figure out their way. 

So either get LL and stop complainign

OR

Self-Improvement

It is so easy to say "XYZ is a celebrity, has money, fame, etc and that is why he is able to get ABC even though he is short"

You think money ISN'T the reason why taller celebrities have access to MORE women and respect?

That's the whole point of this forum. At some point, a lot of you men complaining have to look in the mirror and maximize everything about you so you can stand out despite your height. 

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This garbage has been on the internet for years. Obviously it's still garbage because there is no concrete proof that this trash works. 

There are a few articles on this site that discuss this at length. The short answer is YES, it does get better, but only if you yourself get better as in being great in all areas of your life.

There will be women who will not be interested in short guys no matter what, but many will adjust what they are looking for. Just be sure to look out for women who make themselves available to you because their own lives are in turmoil and they are looking for a "good guy" who dig them out of the holes they dug themselves into.