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There are a lot of things here that can be interpreted as heightist. Though the comments about stature were made from a woman to another woman, we all know that in real life, the shorter brunette would face few if any social repercussions for being short. If anything, the real difference between the two is the taller one having the face, height and body for a model where the other is more of a Plain Jane. If she did her hair, put on some makeup and some high heels, she too could look more like a model and command the same attention. She isn't "that short".
The real heightism (of effects from) are the gasps when the Progressive team discovers their guy has a taller woman who is out of his league. How dare he? How can Joe Normal pull that off? No doubt, even if he had a more attractive face, it would still be "shocking" for a small man to reel in a woman of "that quality".
Article Here: How GMA Hides George Stephanopoulos' Little-Boysih Mini Legs
Disgusting piece of filth of an article, but thought I'd share it here.
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I'll be 40 next year, depressing knowing that I am going to have no shot with younger females, not that I really had a shot with them when I was younger, but now unless you are really rich and you can attract a gold digger or pay some girl at a brothel, you are essentialy dead to them, I still look at younger females with desire and I am pretty sure it is not going to go away especially with what they wear nowadays in order to show off their bodies
I disagree with this. I know that a lot of men here hate being given the "confidence" talk but it is spot-on correct. Not confidence as some fake badge of honor, but in "not giving a flying crap about what anyone thinks".
There is a man on YouTube who addresses short guy's issues attracting a partner. I will reiterate some of the talking points from that video.
- Not every woman will be into you - For us short guys, it's tougher as we're not a lot of women's type. It just means we have to find the ones who are into us and go for them.
- Don't look for a relationship - Stay on your purpose (hobbies, job, career). Women are the icing on the cake, not essential
- Younger women are an option - Don't make her feel like you're her father. Be fly, be into current trends, let her live in her current stage. Don't "discuss the future". Younger women want to live in the moment (dancing at the club, having fun)
- Avoid older women looking for a clean up man - Shorter guys are a big target for this one because we're clearance rack items to a lot of women who are tired from the mental gymnastics that guys they found attractive put them through
- Nerdiness = Lack of social skills. You can unlearn those.
- Make them feel feminine - Either putting on muscle, being a man of your word or having command of a skill or field
The first point is the most important. You can attract women. You just have to play the game accordingly and treat women not as the panacea to all of your life issues. You have to be comfortable being alone and not require a woman's attention. That's a female trait (being needy).
I am not ignoring heightism and how much more difficult it is for us compared to other men, but we do have a certain level of control. For the women who aren't into us, it is what it is. There are women who not date men with penises less than 8 inches, or men with a certain job, or men of a certain complexion and we can't change their minds. Ignore those and let them be.