There will be a lot of divorced women in their 30’s as well as never married.  This is a golden opportunity for you.  You are in demand, not them, and you can use this to your advantage, as I did.  You can pick and choose, something that women, late in life realize.  I wish I knew about this earlier in life than I did.  Be aggressive and blow off those girls who rebuff you.   It is a numbers game.  I was rejected years ago.  Do I give a *bleep* now?  Not in the least.  Who cares what some dumb a-hole bitch thinks.   She is getting older by the minute as are her eggs.  Time is on your side, not hers.

Read this article and see for yourself. 

smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/why-women-lose-the-dating-game-20120421-1xdn0.html@d11211

Yes It does get better.  I posted this here before.

After reading this blog and a few others like it, I thought I would present a few tall women episodes in my life during early 20’s, as I was rejected by the women who chased after the Alfa males and showed no more interest in me than glancing at a blade of grass next to the highway traveling at 75 MPH.  And this made me think about my own personal experiences with tall women, a slightly different story from this blog, but same result due to being a Beta male. 

I will start with a 6’ tall girl, in a gym, who talked to me with such a look of disinterested she couldn’t have looked or acted more uninterested if she had wanted to.  I approached another, who I estimated being 5 foot 9 or 10 inches.  She got angry with me for even asking her out and then stuck her finger in my face informing me she didn’t date shorter men.  On line, I met a girl 5’11”, and we worked out together once in my apartment complex gym, after that she did not return my two phone calls, there could be others, too, I just don’t remember them all.  Now, you may say the rejections were because of my looks, that could be true, but as I approached girls closer to my height, my success rate went way up.

This blog also made me think about the rejections by tall girls, and it angered me, but not at the time the rejection.  Only years later, when I actually tallied them up, did I get angry.  I was rejected not because I was fat, bald, ugly, deformed or had a rotten personality.  No.  The reason I was rejected by all of these women was my height.

I did date three women who were significantly taller than me, two at 5’11” and one at 5’10”.  (I am 5’8”)  And all three happened to be 32 years of age, which is more than a coincidence.  No doubt, all three wanted a tall Alfa male, and lost, so a safe Beta male was the next best thing.  I didn’t grow any taller, and I doubt I got better looking.  These women were past their prime and worried.   I was in my late 30’s, at this time of my life, after being married for 10 years.   It was also at this time, I could easily date younger women, and I did.  When I was 38, my first girlfriend was 27, the next was 27 and the next was 24 who became my second wife.  I never dated with any intent of marrying a woman my age.  Younger women had no issue with me dating them, and I certainly had no issue dating them.  I remember going to singles events and seeing very pretty women, who were my age, who I know 15 years earlier wouldn’t have given me the time of day.  And even now, may have looked better than myself, but now it was me who had no interest in approaching them.  I did not want to take time and money away from pursuing younger women.  Why go old, when I could go young?

I am now married and have 4 sons. I could have provided a good life to any girl.  I wanted a taller girl because of the physical turn on and to for fill one of my desires, yet not one single tall girl (in her 20’s) gave me a chance.  I was turned down consistently and without a second thought.  So, if you find yourself in your late 20’s or early 30’s with no prospect of a husband or children, you have no one to blame but yourself.  There were men like me, who wanted a leggy female, but they, like me, were never accorded the opportunity.  (This also applies to average height women, too)  And the reality is that the vast majority of tall women will not even consider a shorter man until it is too late.  You would think it would be obvious that if you included shorter males in your suitor selection, your odds would increase of finding a mate, for there are a lot more short and medium height males than there are taller ones.  So my advice would be to accept the advances of all men and get to know them.  I, who would have relished the opportunity of having curvy broad hips and a tapered waist to hold all night and to make love to into the early hours of the morning, was never, not once, even given a chance to start a relationship.  Thus, throw away the yardstick, for you may find someone like me, who would love to share his life and love with a leggy lady.

I have been the target of this.  A group of girls will all be talking about how they will never date a short man, then point in my direction, like him.  Or say something knowing I can hear them.

My mom was pretty much like gymshorts' mother, not much in the metal department.  When I was being bullied, my parents did nothing.  Looking back, if I knew my sons were going to be short, (my mom was 5'2" and my dad 5'5"), I would have enrolled them in self-defense class as I have did for my boys.  I am 5'8" and my wife 5'7".  They get some height from her side, thank God.  My 17 year old is 6'.  I am so glad they will never have to put with the *bleep* I did because my parents were morons. 

I have seen moves in self-defense class that I wish I knew about, like kicks to the knee.  Why punch up, when you can break a goon's knee, easily?  I am here to tell you, if I knew then what I know now, there would be some scared for life bullies hobbeling around on bad knees.  A key point is to get in close and take away their reach, then kick, punch for the thought, balls, eyes, don't let them get away.  Hit high then low, make it impossible block.  Punch the neck, they lose interest in fighting when trying to breath.