Hi guys,

A funny thing happened to me at work.

A 5'8 Persian girl at work seemed really cool to a bunch of us, who happen to be short guys She said her type of guy was one of my friends who is about 5'9 when we first started to get to know her. We all were initially like WOW what a nice person. She's not one of those tall girls who just want a tall guy. However one day when she was talking about the guy she wants to be with she listed these requirements:

1) Be 6 feet.

2) Blonde blue eyes like a German guy.

3) Pay for everything.

4) She is not religious but the man must convert to Islam so when she visits her parents back in Iran the police will not imprison and kill her. I am serious. She said if she marries a non-muslim she will be killed by the authorities upon landing.

I tried to explain to her that in Canada we do not have a lot of these 6 feet blonde, blue eyed men. She said she knows that and was disappointed. Geez thanks. When I told her to get a work permit for Sweeden or Germany she lit up and said she might just do that. When she left to go home all of us burst out laughing. Her list of requirements is not realistic in any way (she is 32 years old by the way!) and no way in hell is Sweden or Germany going to give out work permits easily, especially to an Iranian citizen.

It bothered me a lot to associate with a woman like this. My personal trainer told me to avoid such people. I am going to distance myself at work from her. Fortunately, I was happy to meet a 6'4 tall woman who would be happy to date a shorter man at a picnic this weekend. So my karma is getting better.

Let me know what you guys think. All these weird things happen to me so I have to share them with this group.

"I am a big girl who is currently working on that. There is so much for you to find out. If I am interested I will hit you up. Please be atleast 5'8 and taller. I have to be really drawn to you for me to look past your height if your 5'7. Also be between the ages of 33 and 38. 
If you dont like big girls aka lusciousness don't waste your time. I dont mind men with children(No more than two)but if you don't have kids even better ."

These types of women are the worst.

She ended two relationships because she just couldn't get past the height. 

Single woman, a Doctor is pondering why she hasn't met her Prince Charming yet. Starts at 48:09 and ends at 55:55)

First and foremost let me excuse for my english, since its not my native language...

With that being said, i have something that have been bugging me for a very long time,
and i would like to hear your opinion on the subject.

This is mostly dating related. But one thing that i find unfair is the peoples ability to forgive and forget.
We've all made bad choices in life, however some are worse than others.

When we go out to meet another girl, we slowly get to know her,
usually it doesnt take long before her unattractive stories from the past starts emerging.
Which is usually a bad choice that she's made. Could be that she's been sleeping with far to many,
or taking to many party drugs, maybe hanging with the wrong crew,
been in to many shortterm relationships or what ever.
Could be anything that is against what you stand for.

People tend to overlook these facts and just comment "that's in the past, it doesnt matter".
Were as I, if i had a say would say that i mattered. You are but just a reflection of your past,
it defines you. It tells the story why you are the way you are today.
A past forms and molds you. If i hear someones past, i can correctly guess the persons behavior.
If someone told me the few examples i just gave, i would come as no suprise that,
that person would be still living on the edge of the legal society,
still smoking weed once i a while (which is illegal in my country),
party a little to often, and have a friend and aquaintances circle that is no good.
And in general living as that pearson was 5-10 years younger than what she actually is.

For me there is a socially hierarchy, people that have been living on the outskirts are on the bottom.
You are master of your own choices, and saying "i was young and stupid, but that made me smarter" is just a stupid excuse for being an idiot the start with.
Past doesnt necessarily make you stronger.

What is the reason to make the right choices in life, sacrificing parts of your freedom, and doing what you think is right in any given sitation, even if you wanted take the easier and wrong choice 
If you're just gonna end up in the same pool as everybody else, in the end?

For me past is important, and I think i have the right to judge someone by it.
Someone who've wronged life, should not have the same socially privileges as someone who've done it right.

I'm asking of the women you've dated, what is the average height range? Many of us have said that really short women reject us more than average height and tall women. What has been your experience?