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Wow @ this reddit post about being ditched on a date because of height
This is a post from reddit. I'll link it below the copied/pasted text from the post: Random girl found me on FB... I'm a musician and she claimed to be "super into music" so I took her to see Chevelle at the Upstate Concert Hall in Clifton Park NY. Her first words to me after meeting in person were "Wow...I didn't think you were that short!" (I'm 5'6", she's looked to be 5'3"-5'4") So we hang out at the bar for the opening acts and it's clear to me that she's not interested by the way she's throwing back shots and blabbering on about how hot the bouncer was... "Seriously...Did you see his muscles?!" Me: Yea...He's a big guy... "He's gotta be at least 6'4"!" Me: Most likely... "I would let him do whatever he wants to me!" Me: Seems like the kinda guy who would end up raping someone. "You can't rape the willing" Chevelle goes on and she's into it, but tells me she's going to the bathroom and disappears... Concert's over and she's nowhere to be found... I'm texting her and she finally gets back to me.. "Hey...I met this other guy outside and he offered to let me stay at his house...You probably think I'm a real bitch but I can't settle for someone I know I can do better than...I'm sure you'll find someone eventually ;)" That was 2014 and I haven't been on a date since On a positive note, Chevelle put on an amazing show! You literally can't make stuff like this up. The reddit post is here: here |
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Forever Single 31 Yr Old Fat Woman Demands Taller Men In TEDTalk Rant
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Does it get better in your 30s?
Do women tend to look past height once they get out of their 20s (party phase)? |
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China's "Leftover Women" say no to men under 6 ft
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5'0 Women Loudly Announcing They Only Date Men 6'+. Ever See This?
I'm talking about being in any random social situation and a women in the super short range like 5'2 and under rambling and proclaiming how much they only date tall guys so everyone around her can hear. Double ditto if there are short guys around. It's usually followed up by some short guy ridicule. Usually comes from women under 30 too. How do you guys react to this? |
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greenbook
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Short woman bashes short man she's dating on the Steve Harvey show
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d11221
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How many of you date more normal sized than short women?
Was thinking about this the other day. I tend to attract and have more relationships with women in the average height category (5'3-5'6), than women my height or shorter. I know that short women tend to be more conscious about their height and pair up with really tall men to compensate (my experience). Who do you date the most? |
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As a short guy do you win over her family and friends?
Anyone else have issues winning over family and friends? It's tough enough sometimes getting a date because so many women are biased against short men but trying to win over friends and family is a whole other ball game, especially when they feel like she could have "done better". I am reminded of a time when I was in high school and I started dating someone on the softball team. Every single one of her friends tried to sway her away from me and fix her up with their athletic and taller friends. While I have the girl and I shouldn't care what people think, it is very frustrating to have to deal disapproval and what it does to the woman I'm seeing. Sometimes even more frustrating when her circle is more approving of men who are below me in every way (i.e. studies, athletics, career, finances, personality, sincerity) except for height. |
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Are you open to dating women of any race?
I feel like at my height, it helps you to understand how stupid biases are. I find all races of women attractive and can't understand why someone would limit themselves, but can't help thinking that sometimes being short makes me really understand it. How about you? |
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Is this how people see us?
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joshbaskins
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Short Guy Pickup Fails
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Meanwhile in France.....
There is this TV show in France where they try to match potential couples. This one woman blasts this guy for being short but guess what, he's not even shorter than her, or short at all. The guy is just not tall enough for HER, she goes on and on about how she wants MORE. She rejects the guy in front of over 600,000 people. The host laughed if off and didn't seem perturbed by it in any way. The guy is at LEAST six feet tall and taller than the woman that rejected him in heels. |
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Short men who are/have been married, how did you meet your wife?
I know there is light at the end of the tunnel. While it is tough for some of us to date because women almost universally find shortness unattractive, I do know many short men who've hitched. I work with many short men who have been married for years. Sadly, I know many who have divorced, with their wives lamenting at their height on their way out. How did you meet your wives? Were they okay with your height from the beginning? |
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"I'm not 6'3. I put that on my profile to keep short guys away"
Women lie on their dating profiles all the time. We lie on our profiles to be seen. They lie on their profiles to filter undesirables out. |
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Me VS Society - My Darkside [WARNING: Wall of text]
Oh boy. This is gonna be a long one.
When i was a kid i was the cutest thing, lille brown fellow with a loveable smile, raised well with a helpfull and a caretaking heart, i had tons of friends and every other kid and adult loved me.
This time i did everything i could to be one of the cool guys, cause i noticed they were the one getting all the good ladies, and everyone else had a crush on them.
When i completed boarding school, i started technical school where i met a common friend, who was in the underworld that i wanted to be, one of the tough guys. I quickly became friends with him, and i started doing some bad stuff, thefts, fighting and other small time crimes.
Around a year later my friends made a mean and funny but succesful party-trick in the drunken-nightlife. They would walk up to a girl in a club, saying that they were from a magazine and they were trying to find the clubs best kisser, all they have to do, was to kiss the guy standing over there (who of course was another one of our friends) That night, they said, that they kissed at least 10 girls each.
At the time, it have been 3½ years since i last slept with a girl, and havnt kissed anyone for a long time. The next day they wanted to try the same trick but only with me in focus.
Desperate i signed up for a tinder profile, which backfired, as i wrote my height and only got the worst of the worst tinder matches, and those who actually had soemthing nice about them, rejected me, saying my height was a problem.
4 years after my last erotic night, me and my friends took a trip to Germany where i slept with a prostitude which i to this day regret.
I was so far down at the time, i was so depressed, every time i got into my car, i thought if i shouldnt just drive down the hill into the house at the bottom of the road just to punish myself for being such a failure at life. About 5 years after the last real female attention, i thought to myself that i would give it one last try to get a girl, or i would go comepletely down and do only god knows what to myself, since im very selfcritic. Luckely i found an unattractive girl to be with. She was young, but super controversial from everyone else. And i was so nervous when i saw her, i was 23 have slept with 3 girls 5 years ago and i've never had a girlfriend.
Today im just hunting for new fat single slutty mothers with anxiety, depression and other life issues to bed.
Im just sick of being judged by my brown looks and height. As everyone else i have my issues but im actually one of the good guys. |
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"I don't mind dating short guys, but my current boyfriend is 6'4"
When in conversations with women and the subject of height comes up, this response gets thrown around a lot. It's like a crazy cognitive dissonance. I don't understand why women do this. Is this to make them feel better about themselves for supposedly not being shallow, or to let people know that they are one of the "good ones" by agreeing with other women who make this claim? How are short guys in these conversations supposed to feel better about themselves when even the women who supposedly are okay with short guys still end up with tall guys and these women have to "make it known"? |
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