It hasn't been long and this wasn't planned but since my ex moved and when we recently spoke, she didn't plan on coming back, I said yes to going out with a friend's girlfriend's friend. She is cute. Brown hair, hazel eyes, about 5'1. She works out but isn't a fitness freak. Nice body, fit but curvy with fat in the right places if you know what I mean.. haha 

Anyways, we are going to keep it casual. We spoke on the phone and will catch a movie and some dinner after. This way we have something to talk about while eating if all else fails. 

The only thing I am worried about is that she is not only friends with her ex, but he is a complete gym rat. The dude is over 6' and has to weight like 210 but all muscle. I don't want to be a let down. We never met but have talked on the phone. She knows I am not tall or buff but still, she hasn't seen me. I am worried. I don't want this worry to ruin the night. Any advice?

So this new girl, or rather, "women" started 2 weeks ago. She is always looking at me smiling and asking me for help. She is 19, which is a but young for me ( I don't date more then 5 years younger than myself), but she is cute. I am not sure if I should do anything about this or not. 

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 I still think women have it easier, even taller ones. BUT that is not to say they don't have trouble with weight. A lot of dudes out there will shun a gal for being 10 pounds heavier then she was when they first started dating. 

 I got approached by a biker woman last night when me and a few buddies were out eating. She was a few inches taller than me, very strong and beautiful. No make-up, messy hair, around 22 in age (I am pushing 32). Anyways, she walks up to me and tells me she thinks I am a good looking man and wants to buy me a drink. I sat there in shock and my friend goes yeah he will have a beer. She then thought it was cute how I was "playing shy". 

An hour later I had her number and we are planning on going out next week. lol 

So me and this woman I was seeing have decided to take a break. She has to go out of town till August. She don't knwo if she will end up moving or not so it isn't worth holding on to something that may end anyways. Her family needs her. Any advice to take my mind off things?

There is this short pudgy woman that grew up in my hometown in the Bronx who would always put guys down for their height including myself  saying that she "needs a tall man because she's short". She'd also put down chubby guys even though she's a "BBW". Where is the logic in that? I saw this on her instragram this morning.

Her name is pu3rtorican_princess

While some of you might think this is a dating issue and therefore this thread shouldn't be posted here, I beg to differ. A few months back there was some campaign to get rid of a similarly themed refrigerator magnet from another store which I can't recall. I say we should approach this one the same way. Is there some sticker that says "I love fat girls, said no man ever" or "I love black girls, said no man ever"? No there isn't. So while I normally don't get into things like these, I think we should contact the site adminstrator. 

In your experience, or for them women out there, what it the first thing a female notices about a man? I know with men to women, it is usually the overall figure, the hair, and the lips.