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Mon Jan 22, 2024 07:48 AM
by vijay12
short women and height pickiness

I think it's because they recieve so many messages that tell them short = bad. It's a way of trying to erase their own shortness. 

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Mon Jan 08, 2024 10:26 AM
dated a woman taller than you?

Have you ever dated a woman taller than you? in my case, im 4'10 my girlfriend is 6'6, with heels shes 7 feet tall and i reach her belly button.

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Wed Mar 30, 2022 08:55 AM
Has a woman flatly rejected you for height? Let's hear your story.

Has this happened to you? Often? Were you ever humiliated over it? Tell us what happened and how it went down.

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Sun Dec 26, 2021 01:08 PM
"Meet the women who love dating short men"

An article from Cosmopolitan magazine. 

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a34599304/short-kings/ 

 

Interesting as it interviews women who actively seek out shorter guys to date. 

 

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Fri Aug 27, 2021 08:11 AM
"Short Men Talk About the Big Challenges of Dating"

In this recent (May 2021) VICE article, short guys under 5'7 talk about their challenges in dating. 

https://www.vice.com/en/article/93wpva/short-man-syndrome-dating

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Sat Aug 14, 2021 12:13 PM
Girls at the bar

Hi friends. Did you get to start with girls at the bar, who refused you just because of the height. I'm originally from Israel, and it happens a lot of times, and I would like to compare how it is elsewhere in the world.

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Tue Aug 03, 2021 01:26 PM
I was not meant to be short, doctors stole my height.

Ok, long story short, I always had nasal obstruction, because my septum was deviated. My mother had the same problem, and would always use some nasal drops containing a corticosteroid(dexamethasone).
I started using too, when I was about 9 years old, then I went to a doctor, to confirm that it was safe, and the doctor told my father, that I could use the medication.
 
When I was 11 years old, my growth became slow, and I developed something called Cushing's Syndrome, which is caused by corticosteroid overuse. The long usage of corticosteroid stunted my growth for three years, it's a common effect.
I'm 5'5(165cm) and probably would be 5'10 without taking the medication. Also a study confirmed that genital development is also affected. I have a 5.5 - 6 inches penis when very aroused, and very thin, about 4.5 inches in girth. I think about this all the time, and I am dreaming of it every single night, dreaming about being rejected by a girl, because of my height and my thin penis. The worst thing is that I'm sure that my penis would be bigger and I would be taller, since even my doctor confirmed that I am right. Even short girls have height requirements.
 
A girl might not find me as attractive as she would, if I had a larger penis and was taller. This medication fucked my life. I don't want to whine, but this has been deeply affecting my life. And i'm also very shy, so these two more complexes are making my head explode. I need help.
 
I blame my mother for giving me that in the first place, because I was not meant to have to go through this. I was not meant to be naturally short and probaly would have a bigger penis. I read in an article about Lupus, that every single guy who took prednisone during puberty, had a smaller penis than healthy patients.
 
I keep thinking that every time that I will have sex, the girl is not looking at me, she is looking at a chemical induced result.
Please, I really need help. I have this haunting me since 2016, when I found out about the side effects.
If you search "iatrogenic cushing's syndrome nasal drops" several cases like mine will pop up.
What should I do? Just accept and live my life? Jesus, I was meant to be taller, stronger, since corticosteroids also affect bone development. What should I do? I think about this 24/7.
 
I think that maybe I would have a girthy penis, that would stimulate girls visually a lot, and keep comparing myself with other guys, thinking that I will be cheated on because of my thin penis. The worst thing is, THIS WAS CAUSED BY A FUCKING MEDICATION, JESUS. I KEEP THINKING THAT I WILL FOREVER BE MISSING OUT ON A LOT OF EXPERIENCES THAT I WOULD HAVE WITH A BIGGER PENIS, THAT I WOULD PROBABLY HAVE. AND TO MAKE IT EVEN WORSE, SOME FAMILY FRIENDS TOLD MY PARENTS WHEN I WAS A BABY THAT I HAD A BIG PENIS FOR A INFANT. FUCK, MAYBE I WOULD HAVE A BIG PENIS. I AM RAGING. 
 
Knowing everything short guys have to put up with, how the hell should I feel?
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Sat Jun 19, 2021 11:31 PM
Do you know of any dating/game material aimed at short guys?

I'm not talking about general advice, e.g. wear clothes that make you look taller, etc.

I'm talking about comprehensive materials (e.g. a book, forum, website) specifically designed to improve short guys' game.

 

 

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Sat Jan 30, 2021 04:45 PM
For you positive cultists who say that men don't need to look good

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-017-0092-x

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Prior research investigating the mate preferences of women and their parents reveals two important findings with regard to physical attractiveness. First, daughters more strongly value mate characteristics connoting genetic quality (such as physical attractiveness) than their parents. Second, both daughters and their parents report valuing characteristics other than physical attractiveness most strongly (e.g., ambition/industriousness, friendliness/kindness). However, the prior research relies solely on self-report to assess daughters’ and parents’ preferences. We assessed mate preferences among 61 daughter-mother pairs using an experimental design varying target men’s physical attractiveness and trait profiles. We tested four hypotheses investigating whether a minimum level of physical attractiveness was a necessity to both women and their mothers and whether physical attractiveness was a more important determinant of dating desirability than trait profiles. These hypotheses were supported. Women and their mothers were strongly influenced by the physical attractiveness of the target men and preferred the attractive and moderately attractive targets. Men with the most desirable personality profiles were rated more favorably than their counterparts only when they were at least moderately attractive. Unattractive men were never rated as more desirable partners for daughters, even when they possessed the most desirable trait profiles. We conclude that a minimum level of physical attractiveness is a necessity for both women and their mothers and that when women and their parents state that other traits are more important than physical attractiveness, they assume potential mates meet a minimally acceptable standard of physical attractiveness.

 

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/per.2087

Quote:

We evaluated five competing hypotheses about what predicts romantic interest. Through a half‐block quasi‐experimental design, a large sample of young adults (i.e. responders; n = 335) viewed videos of opposite‐sex persons (i.e. targets) talking about themselves, and responders rated the targets' traits and their romantic interest in the target. We tested whether similarity, dissimilarity or overall trait levels on mate value, physical attractiveness, life history strategy and the Big Five personality factors predicted romantic interest at zero acquaintance and whether sex acted as a moderator. We tested the responders' individual perception of the targets' traits, in addition to the targets' own self‐reported trait levels and a consensus rating of the targets made by the responders. We used polynomial regression with response surface analysis within multilevel modelling to test support for each of the hypotheses. Results suggest a large sex difference in trait perception; when women rated men, they agreed in their perception more often than when men rated women. However, as a predictor of romantic interest, there were no sex differences. Only the responders' perception of the targets' physical attractiveness predicted romantic interest; specifically, responders' who rated the targets' physical attractiveness as higher than themselves reported more romantic interest.

So, according to research and science, the "massive role" personality and confidence play in attracting women is... no role at all.

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Sun Sep 20, 2020 03:11 AM
Any of you notice women over 30 are "more open" to dating shorter guys

Started dating a woman who is 36 and she said before two years ago she never dated any man under 5'11. She happens to be a single mom of two who is illegally renting an attic in long island new york. Not that it matters but it seems like I attract women over 30 like white on rice.

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Fri Aug 28, 2020 11:08 AM
"Would you date a shorter man?". Black woman goes apeshit on GMB

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Mon Aug 10, 2020 10:48 AM
Tinder finally did it

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Sun Apr 26, 2020 11:13 AM
Wemen actually turning away on street

Hey guys,

 

i am pretty short (5,4) and indian, and not actually that bad looking in my opinion and happy with myself but the world sees this differently. Well, thats ok, i dont give a shit about most people :) But what really bothers me, on the open street, when i go for a walk for example, wemen who walk in my direction actually fucing change street sides or make an effort to not come into 3m of my personal space. Just today a young woman was jogging in the opposite direction than me in the park, she saw me, she actually fucing stopped jogging, turned around, walked a bit so i could just see her back and then started jogging again away from me. And really, i am like what the actual fuc. It's not that i would even care about those wemen. Like honestly. What the fuc is this? It is really annoying and actually bothering me a lot, even if it shouldn't...does anyone have similar experiences, or is it really just because of me. 

 

Another notice: Usually this only happens with wemen i would consider average or good looking. The ones who look REALLY good usually have to work for their looks (with sports) and got their shit sorted out and are mostly down to earth people. Those who do not look that good know good enough to not judge other people based on their looks. But this middle to good looking part of wemen i find really incredibly annoying. I could just walk around and slap each single one them in their face, like with all of my strength.

Well, what are your thought on this guys?

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Tue Aug 20, 2019 07:39 PM
by d11221
Tinder isn't always bad.

Sometimes you just get lucky. smiley

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Thu Jul 25, 2019 06:55 AM
Good thread comparing heightism to colorism

This was from a post on Lipstick Alley, a site for black women. A lot of the darker skinned women complain about "colorism" and how unfair it is, but are quick to denigrate a man because of his height which of course is just as uncontrollable as someone's complexion. This is the first post. I will leave a link to the thread underneath

 

Is it really comparable though? I don't think so..

I hear men say "women always curve short dudes but they get mad if we prefer light skin women." And "if we were talking about dark skin women about the way y'all talk about short men, you would be mad".

Then my sister was talking about the other day how "all men love tall women because we are goddesses and we hold weight better (she's dark skin btw and she was saying it in a joking way) and one of our cousins is a shorter light skin girl and she said "but y'all hate when men say they prefer light skin women but it's okay for you to talk sh*t about short women". She also then said that "most men would prefer a short light skin girl over a tall dark skin girl anyway, us lightskins always winnin" (Wow right?)

Like why does everything about height have to revert back to colorism. People always want to bring colorism up when we are talking about a whole different topic. You can't compare oppression and slavery to height!

Rant over

 

Thread here: https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/why-do-some-people-compare-heightism-to-colorism.1533355/

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Tue Jul 16, 2019 09:10 PM
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