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The struggle of a shorter man hitting the gym
Can you relate? LOL. You all know the struggle... |
0 | 157 | by Buncome |
Dunkin' celebrates "Short King Spring" with new beverage
Looks like we're getting some love! |
1 | 217 | by jaguar1010 |
What age did you stop caring about how others your perceived height?
For the older guys here, at what age did you stop caring about your height if you ever did? |
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Started by CorporateGuy
Charles I of England was 5'4
Known best for building up the English navy and for putting England on the path to civil war. He was 5'4. |
0 | 143 | by CorporateGuy |
Started by shortteacher
Alexander the Great was 5'6
I've read that he was anywhere from 5'5-5'7 which might have been average for his time, but certainly short for today. |
2 | 225 | by CorporateGuy |
He asks how many shots to forget he is 5'3?
Even at this height, I don't think he is in an impossible situation. |
2 | 218 | by CorporateGuy |
Fellow short brothers. Where do you buy your suits?
Nice to see this site up and running again. My favorite suit places are as follows:
Indochino is my favorite because of price, quality and the friendliness of the staff. I live in NYC, so heading to their showroom is easy as pie. The prices of the places I mentioned runs the gamut though with Astor begin pretty pricey. You get what you pay for though! Express has mass manufactured clothing, but I love thier styles and can get jackets and pants tailored if need be. I'm just curious to know where you all purchase your suits and why you prefer those places. |
0 | 224 | by CorporateGuy |
Started by OverTheEdge
A reflection on Kent from Kent TV
Kent was really going through it in this video. I hope he is seeing better days here in the present. Confidence usually comes from past successes, but some of us have to fake it until we make it. |
2 | 281 | by thepostman |
Men don't deal with body image issues according to her.
Just be tall. So simple! |
1 | 246 | by thepostman |
Tall woman and short man compare dating struggles
You can see the pain in the man's eyes here. Not to be dismissive of the woman's "struggles" here, but as it is most of the time, she invents her struggles. She has no shortage of suitors, they're just not the ones she wants. |
2 | 212 | by jaguar1010 |
Indian man does a documentary on the struggles of being short.
Seems to be mostly focused on heightism and his journey with LL. Looks like it will be interesting. |
0 | 176 | by jaguar1010 |
How often do you work out and what are your fitness goals?
A few questions: • What are your fitness goals? • Does your height affect how much muscle you wish to put on if you're working toward increased mass? Do you care about your proportions? |
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Started by Maid Marian
I prefer dating shorter men. AMA
My high school sweetheart was 5'6 and most of my boyfriends were 5'8 and under. I prefer being eye to eye and being able swap hoodies when I have a partner. We do exist and I don't believe that we're that uncommon. |
1 | 217 | by Suarez223 |
Comedian Marcello Hernandez On Being A Short King
Funny bit on Weekend Update. I didn't know that Marcello Hernandez was 5'7. |
1 | 202 | by Suarez223 |
Do you encounter a lot of short men in your area?
I am 42 going on 43 and where I'm from I rarely see men my height or shorter. When I'm out and about, I see taller men doing stuff with other people or hanging out with women of varying heights.
In my area, which is predominantly white, the vast majority of whites in this area are quite tall. The average woman in this area is taller than I am to boot. At 5'6, that is supposedly the average height of a female, but where I am many or most are in the 5'7 - 5'9 range. As I mentioned before, being my height, average height men for sure tower over me when I wear sneakers without any boost (i.e Air Force Ones). My lack of height is very obvious and is often the first thing people bring up when we begin to converse.
Race may not seem to be important, but in this context it is. I notice shorter men in other groups tend to get a "pass" and live normal lives. If they are 6ft, it's an added bonus. Being white and under 6' is a huge minus. I wouldn't say race affects others as much if they're under 6'. I believe height acts as a multiplier for all positive character traits. If you are tall it compensates yoru positives. If you're short, it amplifies your negatives. Anyone else notice that?
At 42, I've had more than enought time to experince the world around me. In social environments in clubs and lounges in my 20s and 30s, when chatting up women, taller guys would often bring up my height in a negative way to make themselves appear better to the women they were trying to get with. Women often do not see you as a romantice option AT ALL. In the best case scenario, they show some type of motherly affection toward you. Worst case, they are extremely hostile. Women near my height and sometimes shorter really believed they were taller than me or could challenge me physically.
Knowing this, I would be very careful when interacting with some women, I would be very careful to not show any indication of romantic interest becuase it would often be met with disgust.
At work, when interacting with other men, my expertise and experience is almost always doubted. My reputation was built from hard work. I noticed that taller men were automatically assumed to have competence in many areas. They could get by with just faking confidence. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if there were actual scientific data showing that taller men are able to climb the corporate ladder due to this assumed competence which would lead to better relationships and willingness to be mentored. On the other hand, my words are always doubted until they are proven correct.
The only time I don't have to deal with this is when I am not around people. I enjoy working remotely because of this. There is no one to doubt my skillset or knowledge. No one judges me on my physical appearance. When I make a mean baked ziti, the oven and stove don't care one iota about how high my head is from the floor.
Perhaps this is why you may not see as many shorter guys out and about. It may also just be my area.
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1 | 174 | by Maid Marian |
She makes fun of short guys and it backfires
Puts men on the spot and mocks them for their lack of height after using a tape measure, but gets self-concious when asked about her weight and to step on a scale to confirm. |
1 | 243 | by raggabagga |